Valenstiny
Active Member
Hello, my name is Valentine. I made this account just for the purpose of posting this.
Last year, I met my ex bf who has Aspergers. Everything was perfect for 4 months and then things got bumpy.
At first, we talked everyday. When I called or texted him, I always got my response. I always knew he’d be right there. He promised he’d never leave and that I was his number one.
Then, I started school again and he began his first year of college. Our relationship was already long distance so sometimes out schedules didn’t match up so sometimes we didn’t talk or not as long as before. I knew this and it was fine. I still got calls and texts even if they weren’t as frequent which was something I had to learn to adjust to.
My dog died during this which only added to my stress. Like him, I suffer from mental illnesses (Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder) so because of everything that went on, I became unstable. I began to lash out at him. It was horrible. Because of this, we took a break for me to get myself together.
After that was fixed, we barely spoke at all. No calls an occasional texts. The only real way I could hear from him was if I gave him an ultimatum or said it was serious.
Fast forward to early this year, no calls, no texts at all. Nothing. When we did talk, sometimes he’d be cold with. He was never there anymore. He said he’d improve but nothing changed so I broke up with him. He understood why and promised he’d come back and that he wouldn’t leave me alone. But he did.
Now we never ever talk. I try so hard to get him to respond. It’s like he sees my texts but doesn’t care. Last week he said he’d call, no call. Nothing. It breaks my heart. I miss him so much but I don’t know how to get to him. I have his number, SnapChat, and Xbox name. I also have his moms number and his sister’s Instagram but I’m too scared to bother them. I just want to speak to him. I miss him so much and I love him with my heart. I don’t know what to do. I’m desperate.
Last year, I met my ex bf who has Aspergers. Everything was perfect for 4 months and then things got bumpy.
At first, we talked everyday. When I called or texted him, I always got my response. I always knew he’d be right there. He promised he’d never leave and that I was his number one.
Then, I started school again and he began his first year of college. Our relationship was already long distance so sometimes out schedules didn’t match up so sometimes we didn’t talk or not as long as before. I knew this and it was fine. I still got calls and texts even if they weren’t as frequent which was something I had to learn to adjust to.
My dog died during this which only added to my stress. Like him, I suffer from mental illnesses (Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder) so because of everything that went on, I became unstable. I began to lash out at him. It was horrible. Because of this, we took a break for me to get myself together.
After that was fixed, we barely spoke at all. No calls an occasional texts. The only real way I could hear from him was if I gave him an ultimatum or said it was serious.
Fast forward to early this year, no calls, no texts at all. Nothing. When we did talk, sometimes he’d be cold with. He was never there anymore. He said he’d improve but nothing changed so I broke up with him. He understood why and promised he’d come back and that he wouldn’t leave me alone. But he did.
Now we never ever talk. I try so hard to get him to respond. It’s like he sees my texts but doesn’t care. Last week he said he’d call, no call. Nothing. It breaks my heart. I miss him so much but I don’t know how to get to him. I have his number, SnapChat, and Xbox name. I also have his moms number and his sister’s Instagram but I’m too scared to bother them. I just want to speak to him. I miss him so much and I love him with my heart. I don’t know what to do. I’m desperate.