Is it normal for people like me to think negative? I was thinking they are having something in the park but walking there it drizzle a bit and I said it is going to rain and they are going to cancel. Of course the event went on and I had a good time.
Or when I use to go to in person groups before the pandemic and I will think no one or just a couple of guys no girls will show and it would be canceled.
Thinking I am not going to make any friends because of the pandemic but I ended up making a few new ones and have a closer friendship with two girls.
Yet I still think negative. I won't have a good time event will be canceled or they won't show up. Then the one time I think positively and the negative thing happens no one shows up and the event was canceled so I go right back of thinking negative so if it turns positive it's okay but if it turns negative it soften the blow.
I got this because when I was younger I had a lot of negative experience some really bad in school growing up and with my cousins which were not nice.
Or when I use to go to in person groups before the pandemic and I will think no one or just a couple of guys no girls will show and it would be canceled.
Thinking I am not going to make any friends because of the pandemic but I ended up making a few new ones and have a closer friendship with two girls.
Yet I still think negative. I won't have a good time event will be canceled or they won't show up. Then the one time I think positively and the negative thing happens no one shows up and the event was canceled so I go right back of thinking negative so if it turns positive it's okay but if it turns negative it soften the blow.
I got this because when I was younger I had a lot of negative experience some really bad in school growing up and with my cousins which were not nice.