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Men: What is your definition of a "nice" lady?


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Bad idea my brother was down there he hated it there hot, sticky, full of nasty biting bugs.
Weather doesn't seem much different from here. I might have to just deal with it. I don't think it's as hot as Georgia.
This sounds like a standard, if it is still really useful, for women, which for me, appears to unfairly target women on some level, and also might ask men, who do they collectively believe they are in making such judgements? "Nice", what is this sort of thinking, something from another day and age, really?

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Bad idea my brother was down there he hated it there hot, sticky, full of nasty biting bugs.
I have never visited Nashville, but it is my current understanding that crows there are regularly hunted down and killed in large numbers. We know that crows are known to be very smart among the birds, not unlike their close relatives the ravens. I do not support the mass killings of crows, I like these birds and feed them on a regular basis.


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Weather doesn't seem much different from here. I might have to just deal with it. I don't think it's as hot as Georgia.

okay go find out for your self :rolleyes: cold weather Yankee boy...get used to that phrase Yankee boy it will be used on you down there.:p


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I still think of the word 'nice' in the meaning its had most of my life. The new meaning which is negative I think of as 'manipulative'.

So nice to me just means friendly and is a good attribute.


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The Wife of Noble Character

A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.

She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants. She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.

She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.

She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.

She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
Proverbs 31 Woman right? :)

Slim Jim

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Nice lady = Just like Mom.

Not saying that's healthy expectation to put on somebody lol but science...

But specifics....where do you start?

This about covers it:

1. Honest and Trustworthy
2. Authentic or Genuine
3. Independent and Self-Reliant
4. Intelligent and Curious
5. Self-Confident
6. Supportive
8. Compassionate and Forgiving
9. Kind and Thoughtful
10. Willing to Meet You Halfway
11. Consistent and Reliable
12. Classy and Charming
13. Playful and Humorous
14. Inspiring
15. Down-to-Earth
16. Passionate
17. Open to Learning

That is what any one would adore, and feel very lucky to find. This is rare though.
Now I don't have all these qualities. But I can still be attracted to people who are less than perfect.
Since nobody is perfect. It's unrealistic to want somebody like this. And I would never expect that.
If you have 60%+ of these traits, then you're; "a nice lady." If you have 90%+ then you're superwoman lol.
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Slim Jim

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On the 17 point system. If I were to rate myself...I would humbly say.... very humbly, I'm a 15/17. Some room for improvement, but ya know, I'm doing my best. Yeah.

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So humble... yet so conceited. It's like how can the two forces exist inside one body!?

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