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Featured Online Dating entirely useless for most men?

Discussion in 'Love, Relationships and Dating' started by Pariah Dog, Nov 26, 2017.

  1. Shiznown

    Shiznown Well-Known Member

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    YEah, that's all fine and great, except even when you take 10 minutes to read a woman's long profile and actually put your time into it, she still doesn't reply and even if she does she stops talking at some point. So why even bother?
     
  2. paloftoon

    paloftoon Well-Known Member

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    Actually Shiznown, that's exactly what I'm pointing out. That many men such as yourselves want to start off short because they feel it's too much of a bother to be concerned with details unless interest in shown. With females in general, they seem to want the detail. The whole irony to that is that even with the detail, they may show no interest anyway. So, I think females need to stop complaining and make an effort to show interest as well so that there is more of a conversation naturally. Also, a female, if they really like someone's profile and appearance combination, they will eventually reach out anyway, lol. So, if you want to spend your time on something besides making short contact, I think it beneficial to have a quality profile that is quality to you and shows you and you rather than something more mundane. If you're looking for a hookup, then you want to keep everything ridiculously short.

    10 minutes to some people may not be a long time. you choose how want to read or skim others' profiles. You do what works for you, but keep in mind that others have preferences that may not match your preferences or even be ideal for them to try to meet people.