rainfall
Playing in the rain =P
I know that most of you here are on the spectrum (I'm an undiagnosed Aspie) and have your own experiences, so I am posing this question to all of you. When would it have been best for you to be told and talk about your diagnosis?
My son is nine years old. He's obviously different and even in regular situations with more typical children he gets extra or different help to function socially currently. I've been thinking about this ever since he was diagnosed. He's aware of the term, as I've been asked by professionals a lot in front of him or it's been said as an answer when going to the doctor for his history. It's getting to the point when others may start asking him why he's different when I'm not around and I don't want him to think he's less of a person because of his differences being pointed out. It's likely he won't even understand their question as I don't think he sees himself as different than them right now. He understands and has been a victim of physical bullying but I don't think he recognizes the verbal stuff yet. So, if you could please give your experiences, thoughts and/or advice, I will seriously appreciate it. Thank you so much!
My son is nine years old. He's obviously different and even in regular situations with more typical children he gets extra or different help to function socially currently. I've been thinking about this ever since he was diagnosed. He's aware of the term, as I've been asked by professionals a lot in front of him or it's been said as an answer when going to the doctor for his history. It's getting to the point when others may start asking him why he's different when I'm not around and I don't want him to think he's less of a person because of his differences being pointed out. It's likely he won't even understand their question as I don't think he sees himself as different than them right now. He understands and has been a victim of physical bullying but I don't think he recognizes the verbal stuff yet. So, if you could please give your experiences, thoughts and/or advice, I will seriously appreciate it. Thank you so much!