4na11
Active Member
Dear friends,
Even though I haven't been officially considered autistic I know I am neurodiverse, and I always knew I never was neurotypical.
Still, considering the possibility of being in the spectrum made me watch and rewatch my whole life over and over again, and I can clearly see all the signs that I do belong to the spectrum.
This is causing in me some kind of fear I never had.
I was previously diagnosed as bipolar, something that is not invalidated by this new diagnoses. But somehow, bipolar made me feel gifted.
Now I see my impairment more clearly, specially regarding my social skills.
I am 56 years old woman and I just moved by myself for the first time in my life.
I don't know how to operate a washing machine. I have traveled the world, I have washed my clothes in stones, rivers, baskets, but I never used a washing machine, because whenever I was at home someone else did that for me. My mind was programed to go through adventures, because it knew it would go back to the safe place back home.
Now I don't have a safe place, or I have to create it for myself. And I am so very incompetent at it.
I moved to a condo with lots of people that can help me, but this made things worse. Now I have people knocking at my door every second to help me out. My nerves are so tense I can hardly sleep. I feel as if I were in a battlefield and I can't remove my weapons, must keep them on all the time.
I can't ask for help and I need help. This is driving me crazy.
This is why I started researching, and understood more about my brain, that brilliant thing I was always so proud of. Now I see what kind of neurodiversity I have, and I am not happy with it.
So, when I came to terms with the fact that I must be in the spectrum I decided to communicate with my tribe, to see if one of you can help me make sense of me.
There are several things about autism I am acknowledging in me that I don't like. And I see people don't like either. This is a horrible sensation.
At the same time I still feel proud of my good points. It is just that lately they are not that much required, and life has been requiring of me things I am not good at.
Even though I haven't been officially considered autistic I know I am neurodiverse, and I always knew I never was neurotypical.
Still, considering the possibility of being in the spectrum made me watch and rewatch my whole life over and over again, and I can clearly see all the signs that I do belong to the spectrum.
This is causing in me some kind of fear I never had.
I was previously diagnosed as bipolar, something that is not invalidated by this new diagnoses. But somehow, bipolar made me feel gifted.
Now I see my impairment more clearly, specially regarding my social skills.
I am 56 years old woman and I just moved by myself for the first time in my life.
I don't know how to operate a washing machine. I have traveled the world, I have washed my clothes in stones, rivers, baskets, but I never used a washing machine, because whenever I was at home someone else did that for me. My mind was programed to go through adventures, because it knew it would go back to the safe place back home.
Now I don't have a safe place, or I have to create it for myself. And I am so very incompetent at it.
I moved to a condo with lots of people that can help me, but this made things worse. Now I have people knocking at my door every second to help me out. My nerves are so tense I can hardly sleep. I feel as if I were in a battlefield and I can't remove my weapons, must keep them on all the time.
I can't ask for help and I need help. This is driving me crazy.
This is why I started researching, and understood more about my brain, that brilliant thing I was always so proud of. Now I see what kind of neurodiversity I have, and I am not happy with it.
So, when I came to terms with the fact that I must be in the spectrum I decided to communicate with my tribe, to see if one of you can help me make sense of me.
There are several things about autism I am acknowledging in me that I don't like. And I see people don't like either. This is a horrible sensation.
At the same time I still feel proud of my good points. It is just that lately they are not that much required, and life has been requiring of me things I am not good at.