chameleonov
Well-Known Member
I've started at this new job last month. And there's been this lady at work I've had a few short conversations with when I started, I was trying to be friendly and ask how things work etc.. Other than that we have pretty much ignored each other and do our job. But over the weeks, one time as our shift was ending she came up to me while I was walking on my way out she sparked up a small convo, I was surprised and didn't know how to react(I was very tired as well, I could barely pay attention to what she was saying), we exchanged a few sentences, then we just said bye and I went home. Didn't really think much of it.
Weeks go by, we just nod and say hi sometimes, but that's it. And then one day this week, as I am about to take an order I need to pack, she is in queue in front of me before I can get the product I need, and I'm waiting for a minute or two and it's complete silence between us, she comes up to me and asks if I am going to for an 'after work' for drinks(with the some of the crew at work). I'm a bit disoriented, but say that I haven't planned for it.(I don't drink alcohol at all). I ask where it is at and she says they haven't decided yet and would let me know(later?).
We haven't really had any more conversations since then and, just a very short one this Friday more work related. She looks like a nice girl, maybe a little bit impulsive, but I can't really tell what to make of this.
Do you think this means anything. Or am I just being delusional? I am really REALLY bad at reading people and what it is supposed to mean, otherwise I wouldn't be make this thread.
Weeks go by, we just nod and say hi sometimes, but that's it. And then one day this week, as I am about to take an order I need to pack, she is in queue in front of me before I can get the product I need, and I'm waiting for a minute or two and it's complete silence between us, she comes up to me and asks if I am going to for an 'after work' for drinks(with the some of the crew at work). I'm a bit disoriented, but say that I haven't planned for it.(I don't drink alcohol at all). I ask where it is at and she says they haven't decided yet and would let me know(later?).
We haven't really had any more conversations since then and, just a very short one this Friday more work related. She looks like a nice girl, maybe a little bit impulsive, but I can't really tell what to make of this.
Do you think this means anything. Or am I just being delusional? I am really REALLY bad at reading people and what it is supposed to mean, otherwise I wouldn't be make this thread.