• Feeling isolated? You're not alone.

    Join 20,000+ people who understand exactly how your day went. Whether you're newly diagnosed, self-identified, or supporting someone you love – this is a space where you don't have to explain yourself.

    Join the Conversation → It's free, anonymous, and supportive.

    As a member, you'll get:

    • A community that actually gets it – no judgment, no explanations needed
    • Private forums for sensitive topics (hidden from search engines)
    • Real-time chat with others who share your experiences
    • Your own blog to document your journey

    You've found your people. Create your free account

Robot or aspie human? Help, please!

Mary Anne said:
I don’t think it’s a “physically abusive relationship” at all, (where did you read that?) but it is emotionally destructive. He has told her to leave, and that he doesn’t care about her. She stays because she cannot let go. She stays because she wants to save and “change” him. She stays because she is afraid of being alone, and of losing all that time she has been with him. She keeps hanging on, and it is a total lost cause.
Click to expand...

Mary Anne it is not physically abusive just now, but could easily turn so, and is not unusual for it to turn so. The leave me if you dont like it, is more likely a method of control rather than apathy. I agree entirely that she should get out but it needs to be planned and advice taken from abuse agencies.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

New Threads

Top Bottom