Past determining my future

[Markness]

What??? That doesn't make any sense.

I don’t understand it either. I also don’t want anyone to decide for me if I can ever start a family or not. I didn’t tell anyone that they shouldn’t have children so what gives them the audacity to tell me I shouldn’t?

All four of my siblings have their own families and they are always posting photos having fun going on trips and enjoying events together. It really makes me die inside that I can’t achieve what they have, even though we all came from the same place.

 

[Jeff T]

I don’t understand it either. I also don’t want anyone to decide for me if I can ever start a family or not. I didn’t tell anyone that they shouldn’t have children so what gives them the audacity to tell me I shouldn’t?

All four of my siblings have their own families and they are always posting photos having fun going on trips and enjoying events together. It really makes me die inside that I can’t achieve what they have, even though we all came from the same place.

That's part of the neurotypical 'masking'- showing all the wonderful things happening to their wonderful family and life, and covering up all the inevitable sordid nasty bits that accompany it all.