I've never had a crush on anyone, but rejection hurts even when it's indirect, so I get where you're coming from. I have no idea what would be the best way to handle it, either. I would have done the same, really, except in my case it would be because I'm too weirded out by her taking time off in the middle of the workday to have sex with a guy.
Being genuine doesn't have to mean being an asshole, but it does mean having to express the negative stuff too. If you fake smiles for her you might make yourself miserable in the long run.
Being genuine doesn't have to mean being an asshole, but it does mean having to express the negative stuff too. If you fake smiles for her you might make yourself miserable in the long run.