BlueSky Aozora
Well-Known Member
Hello, been wanting to ask this question for so long.
If, you move to a foreign country,
in which its level is 'poorer' than your own home country:
How do you cope? When can you adapt? How can your spouse help you? What do you wish?
Your opinion, answers, are very much appreciated! This will help me in finding my answers too. Please help. Thanks a lot!
If, you move to a foreign country,
in which its level is 'poorer' than your own home country:
- with foreign languages that you don't know (everyday hearing your juniors in the office speaking loudly in the foreign language for hours! making you stress everyday. Cant communicate well when going to the shop. feel like cannot go anywhere);
- with less beneficial transportation than what you're used to (poor public transportation -bus schedule unknown, not on time, not all places covered by public transportation. if driving - traffic jam for 1~2 hours for supposedly 30-min drive);
- with less beneficial surrounding (you used to walk no walking/jogging path, no café to do work from laptop within walking distance, no interesting bookshop in walking distance)
- with less satisfactory job than what you got in your own home country (you could only get 1/6 from the salary you got in your home country, and not much job in your field. if in your home country you'll already be promoted);
- without friends;
- with a clueless imperfect spouse (native of that country though);
How do you cope? When can you adapt? How can your spouse help you? What do you wish?
Your opinion, answers, are very much appreciated! This will help me in finding my answers too. Please help. Thanks a lot!