I don't know if this is the cause with me oversharing with people like my friends and even my yoga teachers. But when I was younger, a teenager in hight school then worse college where I was completely ignored I had no one to talk to about my problems. I think the only person I actually talked to was the dean of the college as he and a few of the teachers were the only people there who would actually talk to me. Then I dropped out.
Then I remembered going to a disability work program and only talking to the teacher and work consoler.
I only had a terrible therapist. Then occasionally had some good student therapists I could talk too. I had friends from 2000-2003 that I lost but I was able to share things with. But really after that I held everything in again.
Only now the past 4 years 9 months I been socializing much more and have better therapists I have been having a tendency to really overshare with the pastor, friends, therapist and even some of my yoga teachers. I even have the urge when I talk to someone like Kyle which I did during the big dinner. I also have during the two life groups. I even almost done it talking to women I barely know but I tried to control myself.
It's just holding it in and being ignored by women all those years must have twisted my mind somehow.
Then I remembered going to a disability work program and only talking to the teacher and work consoler.
I only had a terrible therapist. Then occasionally had some good student therapists I could talk too. I had friends from 2000-2003 that I lost but I was able to share things with. But really after that I held everything in again.
Only now the past 4 years 9 months I been socializing much more and have better therapists I have been having a tendency to really overshare with the pastor, friends, therapist and even some of my yoga teachers. I even have the urge when I talk to someone like Kyle which I did during the big dinner. I also have during the two life groups. I even almost done it talking to women I barely know but I tried to control myself.
It's just holding it in and being ignored by women all those years must have twisted my mind somehow.