I know an amazing young woman. She is funny, intelligent, helpful, and kind. She is a hard worker. She volunteers to do things rather than needing to be told. She does a lot to help me and does chores without being asked to do so.
But often, through no fault of her own, as she is autistic like me, she will be in the middle of a task, and if this task is interrupted, or if she is tired, she says she will finish cleaning up in fifteen minutes or tomorrow morning. As soon as that task is walked away from, it is forgotten, and the things end up sitting there. I believe that in autism this is called "Executive Dysfunction". I suffer from it too, in other ways.
Earlier this evening, after dodging project piles on the floor, I nearly tripped over a stack of canned foods she meant to put away over a week ago, and then within seconds, when I was trying to pull something out of a drawer that was overloaded with the wrong things, the dresser toppled, and nearly knocked over a large utility shelf.
I am a wheelchair user, so it's important for safety, as well as access of all the rooms, that there aren't half-finished tasks stacked up on the floor, blocking areas or items that I need to get to. Especially if I am up and walking, I don't want to hurt myself or knock anything over. The house doesn't have to be perfect by any means. My house is tidy, but honestly, it's always a little messy. And that's okay. I like a house that's lived in- a little bohemian clutter. But the floor piles block access and are dangerous.
How do I teach a very high functioning autistic young adult to keep the floors tidy for disabled access? Moreso, as a person with symptoms of Executive Dysfunction due to Autism, how do I make sure that she doesn't forget a project she needed to finish?
But often, through no fault of her own, as she is autistic like me, she will be in the middle of a task, and if this task is interrupted, or if she is tired, she says she will finish cleaning up in fifteen minutes or tomorrow morning. As soon as that task is walked away from, it is forgotten, and the things end up sitting there. I believe that in autism this is called "Executive Dysfunction". I suffer from it too, in other ways.
Earlier this evening, after dodging project piles on the floor, I nearly tripped over a stack of canned foods she meant to put away over a week ago, and then within seconds, when I was trying to pull something out of a drawer that was overloaded with the wrong things, the dresser toppled, and nearly knocked over a large utility shelf.
I am a wheelchair user, so it's important for safety, as well as access of all the rooms, that there aren't half-finished tasks stacked up on the floor, blocking areas or items that I need to get to. Especially if I am up and walking, I don't want to hurt myself or knock anything over. The house doesn't have to be perfect by any means. My house is tidy, but honestly, it's always a little messy. And that's okay. I like a house that's lived in- a little bohemian clutter. But the floor piles block access and are dangerous.
How do I teach a very high functioning autistic young adult to keep the floors tidy for disabled access? Moreso, as a person with symptoms of Executive Dysfunction due to Autism, how do I make sure that she doesn't forget a project she needed to finish?
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