First of all the area where I live is a pretty bad area for me to meet people. Most people around here are trashy for lack of a better term. There are nicer areas in the state, but they are very expensive and too far to walk, making meeting someone farther away harder. Anyway, when I do meet someone on the site they are usually atleast 20 miles (32km) away. If I contact them I either get no reply at all, or I chat with them and they stop talking after a few messages. If they contact me, same thing. I've noticed, that I have to do the majority of the communication literally everytime, no matter if I contact them, or they contact me first. I struggle to communicate with anyone on there. I usually get one word replies, this would signal their disinterest, but this happens even when they initially contact me. It is very frustrating to always be the one to have to carry on the conversation, the ironic thing is most of them state on their profile state, that they want someone who can hold a conversation yet they themselves can not. So, there is my rant. If any guys are thinking about using a dating site, I wouldn't recommend it. I have had better luck talking to people online on chat sites. They are always far away however. I am not someone who thinks they will never find anyone, but I do believe I won't find anyone until I have my career and move out of state. It is just taking much longer than I would like.