Jena
Well-Known Member
So I been dating this guy for 2 years. Which is amazing considering I am a aspie, and he is my first boyfriend. However I feel there is some conflict in the relationship. And I really strongly want this to keep going as I am very much in love with him, but I am not quite sure how to do it.
Because he's been very busy lately, I have not seen him in 3 months plus he went to Isarel for 6 weeks on top of the 3 months. We been texting every day, but I can sense he was getting annoyed at me, because I kept asking if he knows when he can see me yet cause I was getting anxious and nervous. Cause in my brain tells me he's never going to text me back unless I text him. And I feel mabye me asking so many times just drives him away? And then eventually he asked time to think because I was being very depressed and just asking if I should just stop texting altogether.
So now we been on a break. Which is getting easier with each day, for now a week. But I want him to text me first but how does one even get off the break in a relationship and then things go back to normal again? How can I tell him to make him fully aware that I want to see him more. I mean I said it only a billion times. But he is still so busy. How do I rebuild this relationship, with him? There are so many questions about my relationship. I just don't know what to do.
How do I back up but make him miss me like crazy and want to text me back. This is very hard and he does know I have Asperger's. He told me I need to stop being impatience about some things (like seeing him), so how can I work on this? Sorry for all the questions I just don't know what to do, I miss him so much it physically hurts.
Because he's been very busy lately, I have not seen him in 3 months plus he went to Isarel for 6 weeks on top of the 3 months. We been texting every day, but I can sense he was getting annoyed at me, because I kept asking if he knows when he can see me yet cause I was getting anxious and nervous. Cause in my brain tells me he's never going to text me back unless I text him. And I feel mabye me asking so many times just drives him away? And then eventually he asked time to think because I was being very depressed and just asking if I should just stop texting altogether.
So now we been on a break. Which is getting easier with each day, for now a week. But I want him to text me first but how does one even get off the break in a relationship and then things go back to normal again? How can I tell him to make him fully aware that I want to see him more. I mean I said it only a billion times. But he is still so busy. How do I rebuild this relationship, with him? There are so many questions about my relationship. I just don't know what to do.
How do I back up but make him miss me like crazy and want to text me back. This is very hard and he does know I have Asperger's. He told me I need to stop being impatience about some things (like seeing him), so how can I work on this? Sorry for all the questions I just don't know what to do, I miss him so much it physically hurts.