VioletHaze_03
Nerdling (Fledgling nerd)
for some, the start of the school year is supposed to be exciting. However, there's always an exception to the rule. by this point, i've just given up. on the first day. i face extreme social anxiety, and if i try to break the vicious circle, my ASD will just make me say something stupid. my self esteem is so low it may as well be invisible, and with my disgraphia, art can become stressful and just another output for self hatred. i mentioned in my first post that i came here because of a friend who called me out on my strange behaviours (i had trouble saying goodbye when i came over so i just walked out the door, i wouldn't know if i took a joke too far, i'd constantly twirl my hair) and told me that i needed to change, stop wallowing in my own pity party, or essentially, get lost. since i was self-diagnosed, everything started to fall into place. i understood myself and started to embrace my flaws. but just because this has started to happen doesn't mean every day is easy. it's no less of a battle, and a battle i rarely win. today i found out that friend i mentioned is in one of my classes, and she sat right beside me the whole time. i want to mend fences, desperately, but i have no idea how to even start. i guess i'm just really freaked out because this year is my last of high school, and i still feel like an alien. small talk is a foreign language. most "popular fashion" among my age group looks either skanky, ghetto, or homeless, and i don't understand things like parties, or prom, or smearing colored grease on one's lips to attract mates (or whatever teenage girls do) and worst of all, i have no idea where i'm going after this. it's all too terrifying and i can't even begin to think about graduating and the real world. it's just too scary right now and i just want to run away or curl right up into a good video game.i just want friends but i feel doomed to being alone. anyone know the feeling? or got any advice? anyway, sorry for the rant, just needed to get it out.