I (31F) have been together with my bf (36M) for 3 and a half years. Things were great for a few years in but slowly started to basically dwindle down to a friendship. We haven't been intimate in almost a year and latterly I've found out he's been "taking care of himself" I told him I didn't want him doing that if we were being intimate.
So today he told me he didn't want to be with me (specifically he didn't want to be with anyone). When I talked about what we were going to do he said me and my son were welcomed to live here still.
After discussing details everything is staying the same except we aren't going to be together ( no intimacy kissing etc) I'm not worried about him being with someone else. He was single for 11 years before dating me. He just says dating isn't for him. I said I would move out but he said no.
Do you think we would ever get back together or once it's done it's done ? I'm afraid I pushed him away.
So today he told me he didn't want to be with me (specifically he didn't want to be with anyone). When I talked about what we were going to do he said me and my son were welcomed to live here still.
After discussing details everything is staying the same except we aren't going to be together ( no intimacy kissing etc) I'm not worried about him being with someone else. He was single for 11 years before dating me. He just says dating isn't for him. I said I would move out but he said no.
Do you think we would ever get back together or once it's done it's done ? I'm afraid I pushed him away.