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Markness

Markness

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  • Markness
    I feel truly feel sad every day I wake up and I don’t have a girlfriend in my life.
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    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Masked Man
    Masked Man
    True but even the CDC updated their isolation guidelines just recently. As long as you don't have an active fever you treat it like any other respiratory infection.
    Markness
    Markness
    @Gerald Wilgus I can’t attend any gatherings for the event. Even my family doesn’t care about what will go on that day.
    Markness
    I’ll never get the comic I used to dream about drawn. Same with the animation I used to dream about, too. :(
    tree
    tree
    So you plan to fail?
    Markness
    Markness
    I don’t want to fail but I don’t know if I can turn my life around.
    tree
    tree
    Makes it sound like you're trying to push a semi or haul a refrigerator on your back.

    If you want to draw or do animation, do it.
    It seems like you're expecting the Sistine Chapel and when that doesn't happen,
    you give up.
    Markness
    Is there still time to get what I want in this life before I die?
    Markness
    I should probably stay home today. I am having painful coughs in addition to having a scratchy throat.
    Markness
    My throat is scratchy and I occasionally cough or sneeze.
    tree
    tree
    Allergies?
    Dry weather?
    Something else?
    Markness
    Markness
    Allergies and sore throat.
    Markness
    My mother is the only person I know who thinks being a control freak is a good thing.
    Markness
    I was given a shot into my stomach fat.
    Markness
    My confidence has fallen and smashed apart on the ground. :(
    tree
    tree
    What's the time line on that?

    When was the confidence level higher than it is currently?
    Markness
    Markness
    It was higher during the first part of last year but after what happened with Jennifer, the toxicity on Discord I got dealt with, flunking a college course, and other traumas I’ve had to go through, my confidence has plummeted.
    Markness
    I wish life would go my way instead of hitting dead ends. :(
    tree
    tree
    Some of the things you regard as dead ends could be considered stepping stones.
    Markness
    Another weekend ending in disappointment. :(
    tree
    tree
    M
    Misty Avich
    I didn't go out the door all weekend, just lazed around in my soft, warm bathrobe. Often I like doing nothing.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Drop out of college you will make zero friends there. Still work at your job because you have too but don't except to be noticed. Try a new hobby like yoga or dancing. Try hanging and meeting kinder people.
    Markness
    I carelessly missed another social opportunity with a pretty gothic lady. :(
    tree
    tree
    Another way to think of this is that you realize that the next time you see her,
    you might advance the encounter slightly by speaking to her.
    Markness
    I don’t want to give up wanting a girlfriend.
    tree
    tree
    Thanks for the update.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Dont. I'm not. But I'm not obsessed over it over more. I am hanging out with friends. If there are single girls so be it. I am not obsessed trying to seek them out. I am just enjoying hanging out with friends.
    Markness
    I have no friends at work.
    tree
    tree
    @Markness
    You've mentioned people you call friends, giving them rides, going places with them.

    How/where/when did these friendships arise?
    S
    Swords
    Judge
    Judge
    Work is complicated when it comes to friends or lovers. With the reality that all coworkers are inevitably competitors in the eyes of your employer. Worse still is when a relationship with a coworker fails and both of you remain in the same office. Much more painful than loneliness.
    Markness
    I can't figure out how to get out of my rut. :(
    Xinyta
    Xinyta
    You are your own person. No one but you can figure out you.

    The rut only exists because you, so far, have refused to see whatever problems you continue to repeat, without consideration of thier existence.

    See the problem and the solution will follow.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    What I did was join a Chuch and made friends. Joined yoga and made friends with the teachers and acquaintances with some of the students. I did not waste my time trying to make friends on useless endeavors that made things much worse like places like higher education and employment.
    Markness
    The library I work at has been unproductive in regards to finding inroads to socialization.
    tree
    tree
    What were you expecting?
    (This is an actual question. Not a 'wisecrack.')
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