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Markness

Markness

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  • Markness
    I tend to suddenly get stricken with aches and stiffness. Is it from both my blood pressure and not stretching enough?
    Masked Man
    Masked Man
    Specifically where are the aches and stiffness located. High blood pressure is usually symptom-less unless it is very high.
    MildredHubble
    MildredHubble
    Aches tend to hit me more when I have been moving around more in my case. I have to be careful not to push myself too hard, and for quite a while, that bar has been very low. If you've been sitting typing a lot at a computer and hunching, that can certainly set off aches and pains. I just mention it as most human activity these days tends to involve sitting at desks for long periods of time.
    Markness
    I am probably going to get in trouble at work. I thought I was on my usual schedule but it turns out I was supposed to come in at 8:00 in the morning. However, no one from work has called me.
    Markness
    The auto service worker told me he ordered the wrong tire and I’ll have to come back later in the day for the right one.
    Markness
    The house’s power went out and I don’t know why.
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    tree
    tree
    Is it off for the whole neighborhood?

    Has anybody asked whether other people nearby have power?
    Markness
    Markness
    It’s off only for the side of the neighborhood the house is on.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    @tree , here I have Consumer's energy. On their outage page in the internet you can see affected areas and status. Last year we put in a whole house generator since we are rural.
    Markness
    I can’t let go of feeling worried that I will never find love before I die.
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    tree
    tree
    Do you really enjoy that negative outlook you so frequently display ?
    The immediate assumption you take that *all is lost*/*I'm doomed* when
    that isn't the necessary assumption to take?

    That's an aspect with which you can help yourself by 'working on yourself.'

    That book discussion is a step in that direction.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Why are you told? Your negativity is turning you into a professional victim. neither negativity nor victimhood are selling points for a relationship that you desire.
    Masked Man
    Masked Man
    You need to learn introspection. Why do YOU think you get told to work on yourself?
    Markness
    My mother is pressuring me to attend a church and an all-male Bible study. These suggestions are horrible.
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    Markness
    Markness
    @tree I don’t think she even attends church nor a Bible study group. Yet she pushes these suggestions onto me.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Well, if you live with her she gets to input into what you should do . . . house rules.
    tree
    tree
    @Markness
    It sounds like even though you and she inhabit the same living space,
    neither of you actually are aware of each other in a clear way. You don't
    know whether your mother attends church, for example, and she seems
    unaware that her ideas of activities for you don't interest you.
    Markness
    I don’t want anyone to tell me they don’t want me to have a girlfriend.
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    tree
    tree
    Probably your therapist has some ideas regarding that.
    Metalhead
    Metalhead
    I want you to be your own friend first. Then the girlfriend may come around. Chicks who want a healthy relationship dig guys who are their own friend.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    So, what if they do? Are you confident in yourself to disregard them? As a young adult people were telling me that I had no life experience despite doing my service alternative at USAMRIID, basic research in molecular genetics, and being active in outdoor pursuits. They thought that because I was not dating that somehow my experience counted for nothing. I was on my own schedule.
    Markness
    I am scared that I am doomed to always get rejected and will suffer until I die.
    tree
    tree
    www.choosingtherapy.com

    Fear of Rejection: Signs, Effects, & How to Overcome

    People who have a fear of rejection are afraid of not being liked, being abandoned, not fitting in or being alone. People who fear rejection may struggle with low self-esteem, lack of confidence, shame, or guilt, and spend a lot of time and energy worrying about what others think of them.
    www.choosingtherapy.com www.choosingtherapy.com
    Markness
    I worry that I’ll never get to post about finally meeting that special someone. :(
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    Maybe you could post about other fun and special things that you do and see how that feels.
    Markness
    What I dreamed about before waking up was similar to what happened between Jennifer and I.
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    Markness
    Markness
    The meeting part and her disappearing was similar. The other stuff I can’t mention in public.
    tree
    tree
    OK.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I have dreams like that all the time. Many now I also can't mention in public. I wish they were a reality.

    I also meet an Jennifer at a park event but she seem to have very little interest in talking to me more after.
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