I read something recently that referred to an Aspie as someone who was "suffering from Asperger's Syndrome." I understand why people use that word, "suffering." I understand why people consider the spectrum a "disorder," and not only a qualitative difference.
But as is my wont, I like to express things in my own way, and look at things in my own way. In addition to saying "I have Asperger's" as opposed to "suffer from," I don't feel like I "suffer" from Asperger's at all. I love it, because that's a huge part of what makes me me. There is no me without it, and there never will be.
If anyone suffers from Asperger's Syndrome, it's neurotypicals. If I suffer from anything, I suffer from the neurotypicals who are suffering from me.
I'm getting more conscious of their suffering from me, so there's a balance between satisfying them and not compromising myself. Everyone has to do strike that balance, but I swear it's a lot harder when you're on the spectrum.
I don't suffer from Asperger's Syndrome. I am just not wired to fit other people's expectations.
But as is my wont, I like to express things in my own way, and look at things in my own way. In addition to saying "I have Asperger's" as opposed to "suffer from," I don't feel like I "suffer" from Asperger's at all. I love it, because that's a huge part of what makes me me. There is no me without it, and there never will be.
If anyone suffers from Asperger's Syndrome, it's neurotypicals. If I suffer from anything, I suffer from the neurotypicals who are suffering from me.
I'm getting more conscious of their suffering from me, so there's a balance between satisfying them and not compromising myself. Everyone has to do strike that balance, but I swear it's a lot harder when you're on the spectrum.
I don't suffer from Asperger's Syndrome. I am just not wired to fit other people's expectations.