So, earlier today I got a letter from the employment office. And according to their therapist, where they've sent me to last May I'm healthy and able to work.
However, if I didn't agree, I could send them an appeal, where I stated a decent motivation why I disagree. Thus... I did. Now... when I read their letter I sat down and thought about it for a bit. My situation, how the entire deal went down since may, what my actual therapist said and the entire deal alltogether. However, let's get one thing clear, I'm not a lazy dude just willing to hold his hand open and wait for benefits. I'm not against the concept of work.
So, anyhow, I thought about good points I might make, in defense of myself, in opposition against this therapist of theirs, perhaps even with back-up of my own.
Here's a couple of arguments I've come up with (keep in mind it's related to me, thus less general);
- So, this guy, who speaks to me for about 2 hours and inquires about "what I like to do", "how I was in school" and the whole nine yards, is apparently more adept in pointing out "he's not having issues". Whilst my therapist(s), are pretty adamant about it that I need help and that's what I'm waiting for (since there are waiting periods). Point in case, even if I am "healthy", apparently I do have enough money to blow to see a specialist. My problem is far from over, but he to some extent didn't even acknowledge that.
I feel it's quite hard to believe that a general introduction in who I am through some questionaires is enough to warrant me "no problem case". And even more so when I'm seeing another specialist who disagrees.
- He asked me "why are you seeing a therapist?". Which I replied, my GP sent me there because he thought I was depressed. So first of all... he's basing his judgment on what I tell him, second, he's basing judgment on a general idea of a doctor who is not specialized in mental disorders and just sends everyone to a therapist because it's not his field.
I'm no doctor so I can't call shots on what my problem is. I can however call shots on how I feel, and what my general condition is. It's good doctors point you somewhere, but that shouldn't be the final argument or the basis to start somewhere. Faulty direction leads to a really, really faulty conclusion.
- The guy told me, in between... "have you ever considered that it might be autism-related?" to where I said... "could be, but who am I to judge?" where he stated "nah... I don't think so". Yet I keep thinking, A. why bring it up? B. My other therapist disagrees. C. you're here on a commercial basis, not on an well.. "medical" basis. You could've just as well be biased.
Well, there's 3 points here.. I think I'll go for C. My therapist told me "he might just write you as fit to work" as he's in service of the agency and not on behalf of helping you.
- A 4th issue I adressed was, that while I'm sure I'm not "normal" is that if they force me to go out for job hunt, I can't grasp my head around the fact that there could've just as well be "notes" to my name like "he's a really difficult case to land a job". On long term, this will accumulate and will get harder for me to get a job through job agencies, which is actually set me back more than now.
I think that's one people should keep in mind either way. Messing up your "first impression" with said agencies is pretty bad. And even more if those agencies are spread throughout the country with central database access. Just think about what difference it makes if you have the reputation of "he's antisocial, he's arrogant, he can't mix with others" opposed to "he's having a disorder of sorts which doesn't make him social". Sure, the end result still is "you're not social" but I think there is a difference between being, say.. stereotypical white trash or austistic, but that's something people don't see through a digital form on a computer.
And that's only the beginning. Now, it's not particularly, that it's a thing about "look at me! I want attention" on this board... heck, I post enough to get noticed But I rather share this as some heads-ups for people that aren't on the spectrum as of yet and have a lot of BS going on with employment centers.
However, if I didn't agree, I could send them an appeal, where I stated a decent motivation why I disagree. Thus... I did. Now... when I read their letter I sat down and thought about it for a bit. My situation, how the entire deal went down since may, what my actual therapist said and the entire deal alltogether. However, let's get one thing clear, I'm not a lazy dude just willing to hold his hand open and wait for benefits. I'm not against the concept of work.
So, anyhow, I thought about good points I might make, in defense of myself, in opposition against this therapist of theirs, perhaps even with back-up of my own.
Here's a couple of arguments I've come up with (keep in mind it's related to me, thus less general);
- So, this guy, who speaks to me for about 2 hours and inquires about "what I like to do", "how I was in school" and the whole nine yards, is apparently more adept in pointing out "he's not having issues". Whilst my therapist(s), are pretty adamant about it that I need help and that's what I'm waiting for (since there are waiting periods). Point in case, even if I am "healthy", apparently I do have enough money to blow to see a specialist. My problem is far from over, but he to some extent didn't even acknowledge that.
I feel it's quite hard to believe that a general introduction in who I am through some questionaires is enough to warrant me "no problem case". And even more so when I'm seeing another specialist who disagrees.
- He asked me "why are you seeing a therapist?". Which I replied, my GP sent me there because he thought I was depressed. So first of all... he's basing his judgment on what I tell him, second, he's basing judgment on a general idea of a doctor who is not specialized in mental disorders and just sends everyone to a therapist because it's not his field.
I'm no doctor so I can't call shots on what my problem is. I can however call shots on how I feel, and what my general condition is. It's good doctors point you somewhere, but that shouldn't be the final argument or the basis to start somewhere. Faulty direction leads to a really, really faulty conclusion.
- The guy told me, in between... "have you ever considered that it might be autism-related?" to where I said... "could be, but who am I to judge?" where he stated "nah... I don't think so". Yet I keep thinking, A. why bring it up? B. My other therapist disagrees. C. you're here on a commercial basis, not on an well.. "medical" basis. You could've just as well be biased.
Well, there's 3 points here.. I think I'll go for C. My therapist told me "he might just write you as fit to work" as he's in service of the agency and not on behalf of helping you.
- A 4th issue I adressed was, that while I'm sure I'm not "normal" is that if they force me to go out for job hunt, I can't grasp my head around the fact that there could've just as well be "notes" to my name like "he's a really difficult case to land a job". On long term, this will accumulate and will get harder for me to get a job through job agencies, which is actually set me back more than now.
I think that's one people should keep in mind either way. Messing up your "first impression" with said agencies is pretty bad. And even more if those agencies are spread throughout the country with central database access. Just think about what difference it makes if you have the reputation of "he's antisocial, he's arrogant, he can't mix with others" opposed to "he's having a disorder of sorts which doesn't make him social". Sure, the end result still is "you're not social" but I think there is a difference between being, say.. stereotypical white trash or austistic, but that's something people don't see through a digital form on a computer.
And that's only the beginning. Now, it's not particularly, that it's a thing about "look at me! I want attention" on this board... heck, I post enough to get noticed But I rather share this as some heads-ups for people that aren't on the spectrum as of yet and have a lot of BS going on with employment centers.