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My aspie-sense tingled a bit for the past week

Recently I read an article and my aspie-sense started tingling. I might even make this an on-going series of articles that have nothing to do with autism/Asperger's but actually... might have a lot to do with it depending on your perspective.

Anyhow; the article I read was this

In short, it?s a study that shows that a lot of people will lose interest if they monetize their interest/hobby (eg. Turn it into a job/career) and this aversion or disinterest to said hobby might prevail even if you take away the monetary reward system afterwards.

So, why does this make my aspie-sense go ring-ring?

We, as aspies deal in absolutes. If you don?t work like that, good for you. I can?t be held accountable for the full 100% but a vast majority does, and as such I think it?s fair to state ?we?.

With that, those absolutes, comes something like obsession. I think that by now I can put a label on most regulars here and state at least one strong interest, or maybe even obsession for everyone.

This should in some sense be our strong point. Our selling point even. Many of us would like to get employed and deal with something on a daily basis that we feel comfy with. Something we know stuff about. And probably stuff we know a lot about. Yet the danger I see here, within the autism community in general is our narrow interest. Dare I say really narrow and specific interest even?

These interests keep many of us from depression and have some kind of sense of being. I?m not saying my purpose in life is to paint figures, but I feel perfectly fine in doing so and I like it if people appreciate my work. The same can be said about a lot of things. However, it?s also one of the crutches that keeps us sane and happy. Imagine you have 1 strong interest and you lose that? Then what? You need to find a new interest, which might not hold up. On top of that, your job, that you got because of that interest, will suffer and in the end you might end up without a job as well as a depression because you have a hard time finding something fun to do again.

I think that study proves a certain risk for people like us. Looking at myself I?m pretty much totally disassociative with anything I don?t care about, let alone if it?s a job of sorts. So please? give me something I know something about (and care about), yet the concept of paid labor will also mean that I have a certain standard to keep up. How can I keep up a decent standard in specific field if I lost interest?

Mind you, it?s just something I was thinking about and how it affects people with narrow obsessions. It?s in no way proven this is a hazard for autistic people, but it surely made me think about it a bit more

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This is true I myself am good at poetry art and blogging so I have a lot of websites I am part of that I do all of these things and if I am not able to do these things it upsets me and my hole day is shot.
 
Beautiful Mind;bt1781 said:
This is true I myself am good at poetry art and blogging so I have a lot of websites I am part of that I do all of these things and if I am not able to do these things it upsets me and my hole day is shot.

I guess that's a totally different matter. I too need my personal time to do stuff I like, and sometimes, I need hours (or days even) to feel somewhat good.

The question and issue I adressed actually could be seen like this; if you did your poetry and/or blogging and got paid for it, would it, in the long run be detrimental for your interest in said activities? A study shows that this is the case for a lot of people.
 
I agree, that is a danger that is not often talked about when people are encouraged to turn their passions into careers. Once you have hooked your passion (whatever it is) to the necessity of making a living from it, you lose a lot of choice. You now must perform on demand whether you want to or not.

I like to act but I would not want to do it full-time for pay. This way I have the freedom to choose what shows I want to be in and not have to take parts I don't want because I need to pay the rent.
 

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