Hello,
I can handle many things in my relationship with my partner. We are pretty normal when it comes to a lesbian couple.
Most times i can handle being touched, whether it be a touch on the arm or a gentle massage, or even more intimate touch.
Other days, what would normally not bother me, does. It is as if i'm being attacked... even though there is no malicious intent behind the touch.
It is almost like, when someone comes at you to tickle you... Is that apprehension?
Anyhow, i go on high alert, and it hurts my NT wifes' feelings, as she feels rejected.
Do any of you suffer the same? If so,
a: how do you deal with it
b: express that it's not your partner you're rejecting
c: any other advice?
Thanks for your time
-p
I can handle many things in my relationship with my partner. We are pretty normal when it comes to a lesbian couple.
Most times i can handle being touched, whether it be a touch on the arm or a gentle massage, or even more intimate touch.
Other days, what would normally not bother me, does. It is as if i'm being attacked... even though there is no malicious intent behind the touch.
It is almost like, when someone comes at you to tickle you... Is that apprehension?
Anyhow, i go on high alert, and it hurts my NT wifes' feelings, as she feels rejected.
Do any of you suffer the same? If so,
a: how do you deal with it
b: express that it's not your partner you're rejecting
c: any other advice?
Thanks for your time
-p