JMcCauley
Member
I've always been a pacifist. For some reason emotions don't make me feel like I need to hurt someone or yell. I guess some NTs and aspies don't feel the same way, but I think it is part of my particular brand of Asperger's.
Also, yelling IS violence to me. When someone yells at me, I don't get upset, but I do have the urge to hit them in the face.
As a child it was very difficult for me to contain myself when adults yelled. I
didn't understand why they thought being violent was a mature way to make a point.
Now if someone yells at me maliciously, I simply talk quieter and quieter and more calmly until they realise they're being immature. If that doesn't work, I
full on SCREAM at them, which shocks most people into calming down.
Does anyone else have these issues?
What do you do to deal with violence?
Also, yelling IS violence to me. When someone yells at me, I don't get upset, but I do have the urge to hit them in the face.
As a child it was very difficult for me to contain myself when adults yelled. I
didn't understand why they thought being violent was a mature way to make a point.
Now if someone yells at me maliciously, I simply talk quieter and quieter and more calmly until they realise they're being immature. If that doesn't work, I
full on SCREAM at them, which shocks most people into calming down.
Does anyone else have these issues?
What do you do to deal with violence?