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What Not to Say to "I Love You"

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[I love you.]
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Now...that reminds me of what Robert Johnson said
about love & Eskimos & snow
and the difference between Sanskrit & English.
I can link you to that. Notice the clear parallel between
the number of words the Eskimos have for snow, and the
number of words for love in English. Keep that in mind the
next time you think you're telling me something specific by saying
"I love you."
Love



 
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[I love you]

unh huh...
It's always gotta be about you, doesn't it?
Whaddya want? A medal?
 
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Since NT's just LOVE to hear these words, this is what not to say and do to an Aspie that says "I Love You" -

"Can you go on and say that again (and again and again and.....) It's music to my ears. And can you add just a wee bit more eye contact with that? It would mean ever so much to me, Hunny." (Smooch, smooch, hug, hug) "And then we can do pillow talk (same as small talk in Aspie Land) ALL night!" :p
 
Grumpy Cat said:
Since NT's just LOVE to hear these words, this is what not to say and do to an Aspie that says "I Love You" -

"Can you go on and say that again (and again and again and.....) It's music to my ears. And can you add just a wee bit more eye contact with that? It would mean ever so much to me, Hunny." (Smooch, smooch, hug, hug) "And then we can do pillow talk (same as small talk in Aspie Land) ALL night!" :p
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gah:eek:

Well...maybe, if the NT is a feline.
Wait....all cats are aspies.o_O
 
clg114 said:
No! Not only would she get me, my mother would to. This is about what not to say.
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Oh that's right! I forgot. I dare you to say it just once. :rolleyes: (The gates of Heck would probably open up!)

You think your Mama can't see what you wrote? Oh brother, again.
 
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Grumpy Cat said:
Oh that's right! I forgot. I dare you to say it just once. :rolleyes: (The gates of Heck would probably open up!)

You think your Mama can't see what you wrote? Oh brother, again.
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The hole that I'm digging for myself just keeps getting deeper and deeper.
 
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