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I'd probably tell them that what they are doing is wrong and ignore them but I dont know what you should doJust deal with people in jobs that aren't truthful or interested in being helpful, not sure how to deal with them. So l end up ignoring them completely.
I'd say something like, "You're confusing me. Which [notion] do want me to accept...?"How do you deal with double messages, l feel l don't understand them,...?
How do you deal with double messages, l feel l don't understand them, and why can't there be truth here?
How do you deal with double messages, l feel l don't understand them, and why can't there be truth here?
Well that's annoying and stupid for them to doI think some people intentionally try to confuse others either for their own amusement or because they feel they aren't responsible for the outcome if they haven't asked directly. Some people seem to feel they come across as smarter if they are indirect and wordy.
I've gotten to the point where I will openly ask people at times to clarify what they are and aren't saying.
Oh, and I like working with children due to their directness and frankness too
I think some people intentionally try to confuse others either for their own amusement or because they feel they aren't responsible for the outcome if they haven't asked directly. Some people seem to feel they come across as smarter if they are indirect and wordy.
I like thatOne quote I heard a lot in college: If you can't impress them with your intelligence, baffle them with your BS.
This annoys me and happens a lot.I think some people intentionally try to confuse others either for their own amusement or because they feel they aren't responsible for the outcome if they haven't asked directly.
Very rude.This annoys me and happens a lot.
Especially the person I live with does it for amusement because he knows I have Asperger's and
take what he is saying literally. He thinks it's fun and calls me "burger!"
(His name for us.) Rude.
That's similar to what I do, besides that I dont apologize as formallyIf I'm not sure what the person meant, I ask for clarification. Unfortunately, I'm often unaware that there even was a hidden meaning and a lot of misunderstandings occur because of this. In which case I might say, "(I'm sorry) I misunderstood, I thought you meant...."
That's why I put the "I'm sorry" in brackets - you may or may not want to apologise.That's similar to what I do, besides that I dont apologize as formally
YeahThat's why I put the "I'm sorry" in brackets - you may or may not want to apologise.