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The physical part, coming from a virgin.For clarity, are you asking about the physical act itself? What does it feel like?
Or are you asking the much more complicated question about emotions and psychology of sex?
Dating like an NT didn't work for me. It turned out to be more organic for me to just get involved in groups that I normally would have, even if there was no promise of meeting a girlfriend. The ones that you do meet (there) will already have common interests and be easier to talk to.Well, I hope I get to see how it feels one day. This is what happens when you don't socialize especially with women.
The physical part, coming from a virgin.
Well, I'm very independent and I don't want the emotional baggage in a relationship. I'm going to college concentrating on my studies. I don't have time for a close relationship. Maybe just casual dating? I don't know.Dating like an NT didn't work for me. It turned out to be more organic for me to just get involved in groups that I normally would have, even if there was no promise of meeting a girlfriend. The ones that you do meet (there) will already have common interests and be easier to talk to.
The other part is that you will need to bear a certain amount of responsibility in relationships for them to be reasonably successful. Hanging with your peer group can help you to build that ability, too. (For long-term relationships, women, generally, aren't attracted to guys who don't offer some level of emotional support. It makes you come off as high-maintenance.)
That kind of relationship requires one to be more adept at guile than is usually found on the spectrum.Well, I'm very independent and I don't want the emotional baggage in a relationship. I'm going to college concentrating on my studies. I don't have time for a close relationship. Maybe just casual dating? I don't know.
Not necessarily, it's very possible to be blunt about just wanting something casual and to find someone wanting the same. A lot of people don't have time to focus all their energy on a relationship, but do want some closeness every now and then. One of my fondest "relationship" was with a friend with benefits. We were both super busy but just hung out for gaming and pizza when our schedules allowed it, and sex if we both happened to be in the mood.That kind of relationship requires one to be more adept at guile than is usually found on the spectrum.