Past determining my future

[Mary Terry]

I worry that all the years of trying and not succeeding were wasted.

Your worrying about the past is wasting time today. Please try to get on with your life and stop dwelling on the past. You can't change the past but you can control or significantly influence your future.

 

[velociraptor]

I worry that all the years of trying and not succeeding were wasted.

Only if you aren't learning from the mistakes. What is working? What is not working? What problems have you noticed in yourself in self-inventories? What problems have you fixed? What problems are you working on fixing? What things can you learn that will help? What are your short and long-term goals?

 

[Markness]

Only if you aren't learning from the mistakes. What is working? What is not working? What problems have you noticed in yourself in self-inventories? What problems have you fixed? What problems are you working on fixing? What things can you learn that will help? What are your short and long-term goals?

I am short on time currently but I can say this.

What seems to work but only temporarily: Attending Meet Up events or other social events through social apps like Discord.