When parents praise kids about specific achievements, it builds realistic confidence and self-appraisal. When parents don't, kids can fail to develop a internalized congratulator, a mechanism by which we learn to champion ourselves. A lack of or deficiency can lead to an insatiable need for external approval. This actually floats into relationships where we must own our success or we bring the feeling of already being one down.
Does this seem to resonate with anyone? What are your perceptions and do you have a congratulator besides your pet fish?
Does this seem to resonate with anyone? What are your perceptions and do you have a congratulator besides your pet fish?