Hello! To introduce myself, my name is Dyamond, I’m 19 years old (female), and I’ve been suspecting that I have ASD for quite a while now, but haven’t really been able to do anything about it. I’m not sure what steps to take towards getting a diagnosis and have had virtually no help. I don’t have the money to even afford a regular therapist nor have I ever had a therapist before for that matter, so I don’t have a built up history or written account of all of the mental and physcological changes I’ve undergone throughout my life, I don’t really have any help or support in navigating this area of my life family-wise (i don’t think they would believe me)
I just feel stuck and lost and having no idea how to move forward but feeling like I no longer can, something about my condition needs to be addressed before I can move forward in this new phase of my life. So I have joined the online forum with the hopes that I can speak to some people who are on the spectrum, or people who have also suspected and gotten diagnosed later in life. I’m currently at the point where I’m going back and forth with myself questioning if I’m making little things seem big in my head, or if these things I’m hearing about ASD are resonating with me on a deeper level for a reason. I don’t know how to rule out, and I just need advice. I’ve been reading a lot about how autism shows looks different for women than it does men, especially as little girls, all i can remember from my childhood was this ever-present, realization that no matter how hard i tried i was never going to be ‘normal’ , be ‘seen’ or feel ‘understood’ by anyone, ever. It’s sad to think about sometimes because no matter how happy some of my memories were with ‘family’ or with ‘friends’ that realization was still looming over me. What’s even sadder is that , it feels like this belief has really become one of the most defining aspects of my identity. I realized this before i ever suspected having autism, that’s why hearing all this stuff now has made me very emotional and attached to the idea that it might be true because of how close it hits to home.
I just feel stuck and lost and having no idea how to move forward but feeling like I no longer can, something about my condition needs to be addressed before I can move forward in this new phase of my life. So I have joined the online forum with the hopes that I can speak to some people who are on the spectrum, or people who have also suspected and gotten diagnosed later in life. I’m currently at the point where I’m going back and forth with myself questioning if I’m making little things seem big in my head, or if these things I’m hearing about ASD are resonating with me on a deeper level for a reason. I don’t know how to rule out, and I just need advice. I’ve been reading a lot about how autism shows looks different for women than it does men, especially as little girls, all i can remember from my childhood was this ever-present, realization that no matter how hard i tried i was never going to be ‘normal’ , be ‘seen’ or feel ‘understood’ by anyone, ever. It’s sad to think about sometimes because no matter how happy some of my memories were with ‘family’ or with ‘friends’ that realization was still looming over me. What’s even sadder is that , it feels like this belief has really become one of the most defining aspects of my identity. I realized this before i ever suspected having autism, that’s why hearing all this stuff now has made me very emotional and attached to the idea that it might be true because of how close it hits to home.