So I'm in a relationship with a pretty NT woman (although she doesn't like her food touching each other & can't stand the feel of socks...) & things seem to be going well. It was a rocky start, both of us breaking up twice, with the longest separation lasting 3 weeks. She lives around 40min away but comes to stay with me on the weekends.
Last weekend she came down with bronchitis, wasn't feeling well & didn't want to give it to me & my kids, so she told me she would be unable to come over this weekend. Perfectly logical.
Unfortunately, while my logical, rational mind can understand this, my mood since the weekend has been very depressed, like a catastrophe is coming. She tells me she loves me every day, & I reciprocate (I have a schedule of when I say "I love you," so very aspie of me...), so I can't rationally think of why I should feel this way, like she's going to lose interest in me. Is this somehow related to being on the spectrum (in another thread someone said that it is common), & what can I do to push these thoughts to the side & not be or feel so neurotic?
Last weekend she came down with bronchitis, wasn't feeling well & didn't want to give it to me & my kids, so she told me she would be unable to come over this weekend. Perfectly logical.
Unfortunately, while my logical, rational mind can understand this, my mood since the weekend has been very depressed, like a catastrophe is coming. She tells me she loves me every day, & I reciprocate (I have a schedule of when I say "I love you," so very aspie of me...), so I can't rationally think of why I should feel this way, like she's going to lose interest in me. Is this somehow related to being on the spectrum (in another thread someone said that it is common), & what can I do to push these thoughts to the side & not be or feel so neurotic?