VioletsAreBlue
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My ex boyfriend is an Aspie (I hope I stated that correctly. Please forgive me as I am new to this and trying to understand). I am NT. Everything was so wonderful in the beginning. He was the one I clicked with. Like something out of the movies. Talking every second of every day. We matched in everything. I was on cloud 9 all day every day. He was too.
His birthday weekend approached and things went south when alcohol got involved. He's a great dancer, I couldn't even keep up. I went and asked his friend for a quick lesson since he teaches dancing (to be specific, it's two stepping). My boyfriend saw and got extremely jealous and grabbed another girl by the hand and danced with her in front of me, later he confessed it was strictly out of spite. It hurt. I didn't talk to him for the rest of the night and his friends hated me because I don't fit into their standards. Told him that I was terrible for him and he listens to them. The next day we talked and he said he was still so angry at me, and I blew up at him and explained my side. I wasn't nice. I felt abandoned and hated. I went home and thought about it. I calmed down and told him it was a dumb drunk mistake and I'm willing to look past it all. Because before that, like I said, it was almost a fairy tale.
He said he didn't want to hurt me anymore and he was done. Then I see him on Facebook blatantly flirting with other women and I commented on how funny it was that we just broke up a day ago and he knew I'd see that. He blocked me. One time contact he said he just had to disappear. This was a week ago. The break up was two weeks ago. I'm devastated. I just can't seem to grasp that it's over. He is my match, I feel it. He wants nothing to do with me. I want to be with him, to understand him better. How do I even start? Help...
His birthday weekend approached and things went south when alcohol got involved. He's a great dancer, I couldn't even keep up. I went and asked his friend for a quick lesson since he teaches dancing (to be specific, it's two stepping). My boyfriend saw and got extremely jealous and grabbed another girl by the hand and danced with her in front of me, later he confessed it was strictly out of spite. It hurt. I didn't talk to him for the rest of the night and his friends hated me because I don't fit into their standards. Told him that I was terrible for him and he listens to them. The next day we talked and he said he was still so angry at me, and I blew up at him and explained my side. I wasn't nice. I felt abandoned and hated. I went home and thought about it. I calmed down and told him it was a dumb drunk mistake and I'm willing to look past it all. Because before that, like I said, it was almost a fairy tale.
He said he didn't want to hurt me anymore and he was done. Then I see him on Facebook blatantly flirting with other women and I commented on how funny it was that we just broke up a day ago and he knew I'd see that. He blocked me. One time contact he said he just had to disappear. This was a week ago. The break up was two weeks ago. I'm devastated. I just can't seem to grasp that it's over. He is my match, I feel it. He wants nothing to do with me. I want to be with him, to understand him better. How do I even start? Help...