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The OP doesn't seem to be responding to anyone's comments. Just expressing his anxiety so it's unclear if this thread has even been helpful to him.
 
LucyPurrs said:
The OP doesn't seem to be responding to anyone's comments. Just expressing his anxiety so it's unclear if this thread has even been helpful to him.
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It's a common autistic trait when overly upset, worried and/or anxious about something. The amount of times I'm going on about something alarming and people accuse me of not listening to them giving their advice Etc., but I usually do hear them and take it it, it's just that my responses appear that I'm ignoring them by overly concentrating on the issue that's bothering me, often repeating myself. Even though this is a non real time text conversation it seems in some ways similar.
 
Being honest, as nervous as you are in ALL this... It has already been noticed, and you would be a liability for these type people. He's probably just messing with your head. People tend to do that a lot.

However if you feel you are in extreme danger then drive to the nearest police station and explain to them why you feel what you are feeling... They can sort this out way better than any of us can.

If they feel you are in danger they will make a presence around you and your family, or start making a presence around the beasty boys, and this will die down as fast as it flared up, most likely.

I do get your scared. I have been very scared in my LIFE also... It sucks but just keep it real. and don't lose it... If you do, No one can really help you.

Good luck in getting this behind you soon...
 
Its kind of worrisome on some stuff he wrote. He seemed pretty scared and maybe threatened, and then goes silent. I hope all is well for him...
 
He just texted me saying he wants his shirts back and I threw them away months ago figuring they were stolen property. What do I do? He said last night he was coming to get them...
 
ftfipps said:
He just texted me saying he wants his shirts back and I threw them away months ago figuring they were stolen property. What do I do? He said last night he was coming to get them...
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Sometimes a white lie is helpful. Tell him you forgot they were his and you donated them. Apologize. If it's not too expensive for you, offer some money to replace the shirts.
 
Alert the police.
Alert lots of people.
Tell him you threw them away because he took too long coming back for them. It's the truth.
Record everything he says to you, and maybe everything you say to him as well
If possible, stream your meeting on YouTube.
 
The police wouldn't... The texts are on my phone so they're recorded by the phone company. Problem is, it wont be him kicking down my door it would be buddies of his with rap sheets a mile long. So ya know...
 
I don't know what rap sheets are.
Maybe you should move, or go on a vacation. And booby trap the door before you go.
Warn your neighbors.
Tweet, because that gets people's attention.
Crowdsource help, so to speak. Make it all too public that he is after you and the police won't do their jobs.
 
@Ylva

I can't do any of those. I think everything will just work out thankfully. Cops can track anyone in this day and age and believe me, the bad guys know that.
 
Buy new shirts and be like, "those are the ones you left in my car, I don't know what you did to the other ones".
 
ftfipps said:
I am absolutely freaking out!

The guy texted me and said: I left my shirts in your car. Hold them for me.

then he said

U got me??


He is a street guy apparently and he TOLD ME about his henchman. He can find out my address by hitting someone up on facebook. I must be clear, these people he knows are MURDERERS. I knew them all in childhood and we were cool but They are all repeat, repeat, repeat felons with murder convictions now.
I looked 'em all up on a website with jail bookings.

seriously what do I do?
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Ok, you ARE over reacting. Listen to me, I worked with felons in a prison. Just because a person is a felon does not make them “murders.” Or bad people. I know lots of felons who are more decent humans then non felons.

So what if he knows murderers? I know some too. A lot of these guys love to brag about crap and this guy is trying to “impress” you with this crap. They are not going to come after you. Most people who are felons want to erase the past and get on with their lives in normal society. Please stop judging others for their past mistakes. You are causing problems here.

The guy said absolutely NOTHING wrong. Please let him get his shirts back. Please be respectful. You sound extremely paranoid and delusional ....and for NO rational reason.
 
ftfipps said:
...HE KNOWS WHERE I LIVE dude. I'll definitely stop talking to him but I sure hope he doesn't mess me up. I don't know what to think. He tried to lure me into a deserted park and he made it seem like he didn't have a pistol. I believe he actually did have one.
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This is ridiculous. You are creating things in your mind. Maybe he just wanted to walk in the park? Maybe he likes quiet peaceful places - like I do! I just would not hang out with him anymore, and tell him, “dude, just because we grew up in school together, I don’t want to hang out with you.” That’s all you need to say.
If he keeps coming around and bugging you (which he won’t), you can always get an order of protection. But you cannot get one based on zero evidence.

You have absolutely no evidence that he had a gun. This kind of thinking is dangerous. You cannot react to people this way.

Did you ever owe this guy for something? Why would you feel he is after you? Does not make ANY sense.

Besides working in a prison with felons I spent years living a very risky life, on the in extremely high crime areas so I am familiar with these types of people. I also got into serious trouble with the Mafia when I was 20 years old, and so I think you are over reacting here.
 
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