Need advice immediately!

[Mary Anne]

I got involved with the extremely wrong crowd today and I need some advice. I was innocently talking to a guy I went to high school with and it turns out he has a rap sheet 12 miles long and hangs out with major felons and they know my license plate #, what car I drive and they know other people I grew up with on Facebook so they can find out where I live. The guy was really acting sketchy and I am afraid for my life because I think he's gonna ask me to do stuff for him now that he knows how to find me. I don't want to talk to or go near this maniac again, but I'm afraid this guy might get pissed that I'm dodging him. He left two shirts in my car and I am petrified of going around the dude again to give him his shirts back. I feel like I may get killed truthfully. I feel like I was lucky to get away from him tonight. He tried to get me to go to a secluded place with him! What do I do?!

I don't feel like I'm overreacting at all...These people are scary hardcore criminals. What do I need to do to keep me and my family safe? They know where I live. I don't owe the guy money or anything but I am so scared. AND FOR WHAT?? I tried to be nice to a guy I've known for 15 years and I may get murdered tonight for it...I'm truly fearful. I think I may have messed up bad this time.

My family can't just up and move. I don't know anybody who will take me in. I'm really scared.

Tell him that you will meet in a neutral place like a McDonalds to give him the shirts back. Tell him you do not want to continue contact. Period. That’s it.

You are over reacting when you both say your fear of being murdered, and then being raped. Hard core criminal felons do not without provocation do anything like that. Most are not psychopaths and psychopaths are such a minority of society...and they do not hang out with other groups of people.

Since there is no reason to harm you and it would cause them serious freedom problems, your “hardcore criminalls” would not do it. Most felons do not enjoy going back to prison for a long extended stay.

 

[Mary Anne]

I am not overreacting. These aren't petty thugs. These ARE killers who don't care about killing someone.

Even killers care about how they do things, commit crimes, and cover it up. Since there is NO reason to kill or rape you (you mentioned both) , I am wondering WHY you are so obsessed with this idea? In prison rapes do occur, but most felons are so anti rape they cannot even think about it due to being so traumatized over it.