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Make me normal documentary

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superboyian

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Hey all, I just wanted to post a documentary that my friend was in... Her name is Roxanne, she has changed since after the documentary.
This is an old documentary and things have progressed since when the documentary was being filmed in my school and was shown on tv on UK channel 4.

Enjoy :D

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Update: I have updated the following information to this thread. A year ago after making this thread, me and my now ex broke up.... Story too complicated to explain but it's still worth watching.
 
I'm sorry to hear about you and your ex....but the video is really good. I actually showed it to a friend of mine to help her understand some things better Thank you for sharing this video though.
 
I watched this video with great interest & re-watched several parts. What I didn't appreciate at all was the emphasis the head teacher kept placing on how every possible problem these students encountered was due to their Autism. YES they have to be aware that they have it, but this well meaning yet painfully ignorant head teacher made it seem as if these students were condemned to suffer in isolation, rage & frustration all their lives because they were so unfortunate as to have been born defective!

Several of the students expressed severe low self-esteem & there was an alarming degree of suicidal ideation. That head teacher is destroying the very people she is trying to help. So what id she'd feel awful if she had AS. How can she possibly know how she'd feel if she had it? SHE is making them feel awful about having it. They need to hire some teachers who have AS to come work there. They need to see examples of people with AS who are living successful lives. Successful real people with AS could come into the school on occasion & interact with the students about how they've overcome challenges & how they function.

The school has made these students believe in an 'us & them' view of the world. When you take all of the people on the Autism spectrum, then add all the alcoholics, drug addicts, people with anger management issues, OCD people, schizophrenics, those with Alzheimers, PTSD, not to mention chronic debilitating ailments, congenital disabilities, accident victims, spouse abusers, child molesters, peeping Toms, car thieves, wild eyed cult members, religious fanatics, race hate nuts, adrenaline junkies & what nots...AS BEGINS TO LOOK LIKE A GIFT!!!! Think about all the bullets we've dodged!

When I look at NTs, I often wonder what's really going on with them & that's how I can wind up staring. So many are adept at concealing their intentions behind a veritable collection of masks. So many are living truly weird double lives. We Aspies tend to be as we are. Many so-called NTs only appear to be fine. Being a NT is not a guarantee of a happy satisfying life any more than being an Aspie condemns one to lifelong misery.
 
I've stumbled across this thread a while back, didn't get into watching the video, but I took the time now.

All this seems so familiar when I was back in elementary, and for a short part even in high school in terms of behaviour... and yet, no one figured "it might be autism". That's actually the part that saddens me most after observations on behaviour from this and my own memory.

But that's about 20 years ago, and a great deal has changed in terms of autism, diagnosis, support and whatever.

I think, that while it a fairly good insight in how autistic kids might be, it's still "every person with autism is a case on it's own"... that's what makes stereotyping somewhat hard. I'm not that big of a routine guy myself (well, I might be, but not in the conventional sense), so the most basic stereotypes don't fly, especially for support.
 
Tear my heart out, why don't you! An amazing video. How did I never get diagnosed? It seems so obvious when you see it in other people- how did no one see it in me? And when Roxeanne started smashing herself in the head...I still do that- it just broke my heart. So much misery and pain. Suicidal ideation? Story of my life since the FOURTH GRADE! But now, instead of hating myself and feeling guilty for these things, I am so sad for the tormented child I was. Sad for me now- I've gotten better but I haven't "grown out of it." Watching the video was a very emotional experience for me.

But I can be grateful. Maybe a diagnosis and therapy would have been some kind of death sentence for me. I know there are great doctors out there- but the one psychologist I saw at 15 stunk, and had to go on maternity leave a couple months into it. I like what Soup said above about AS looking like a gift compared to other things. I am so grateful for everyone on AC- never could I ever have imagined I would find people to share my strangest, hardest things with and not be treated like a weirdo. Thank you to everyone who spends time here!
 
That principal… does she actually tell the kids their "condition" is "awful"? Because that would just be begging them to be problem children.
 
While I have not watched the film, I did go to the dad's family reunion this past weekend. Since Dad and his sisters are dead, the reunion was held on his youngest brother's horse farm. His oldest daughter's youngest son is on the spectrum. I saw way too much of me in him (and I never met him before the reunion).
 
The kid with Aspergers had severe symptoms. Does everybody on the spectrum have symptoms that are as visible? Is it possible to conceal them?
 
The kid with Aspergers had severe symptoms. Does everybody on the spectrum have symptoms that are as visible? Is it possible to conceal them?

To an extent. Are yours so inconvenient that you need to conceal them?
 
The kid with Aspergers had severe symptoms. Does everybody on the spectrum have symptoms that are as visible? Is it possible to conceal them?

To an extent. Are yours so inconvenient that you need to conceal them?

Until I realised I have AS, I spent my life learning to hide my symptoms to fit in to the norm, as I'm sure many here appreciate, but I'm also given to wonder if it's so obvious in me.. no-one's ever told me so..
 
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