Kissing

[Sportster]

What do you think about kissing?

 

[Loomis]

I think kissing is awesome.

 

[Jacki Cucinotta]

I actually find kissing to be amazing in more ways then one. It gives me a rush and I love how it sets a spark between me and a guy.

 

[Peace]

I can't get enough.

 

[Sparticus]

Tease her, nibble her upper or lower lip...then smell & kiss her neck. Gently bite her lower jaw...

 

[jimited]

I like kissing, I makes me feel wanted

 

[Christian T]

I've only ever kissed people on the cheek (except in drama classes) but I would say that I am a very affectionate person who loves hugs and kisses from family and very close friends.

 

[code-e]

kissing is gross! girls have cuties im allergic to them

 

[Nolan1971]

I love kissing! I am very comfortable displaying affection!

 

[jimited]

When I say I like kissing I only like kissing my partner or my kids, anybody else is just strange. I don't understand why people kiss on the cheek for a greeting and even shaking hands I find weird.

 

[Sparticus]

How bout the pretend kiss? You arrive in a social situation/holiday; you are supposed to hug someone of the opposite gender. So you hug em... and they lean in for a kiss...but it's the ole fake kiss! Instead of kissing you on the cheek, they kiss the air. Maybe Sportster is onto something. The fake kissey thing has always foiled me Aspie senses...:unsure:

Or there's someone's cheek you don't want to kiss :S ...but what the heck, you go for it! :idea: Now you feel dizzy/guilty/sweaty...you can't believe you kissed someone you don't like! Now ya have to talk to them! ARrgggggggg.............after a few ackward moments, it's time to go outside for an oxygen break...

 

[Spinning Compass]

I don't like "French" or open-mouth kissing. Not at all. It was forced upon me on my very first date and that might be another reason I find it repulsive. Maybe if I had "feelings" for the other person, it might be different, but those "feelings" were never allowed to develop. I felt like a blossom that was ripped open rather than being allowed to bloom at the right time.

 

[Jacki Cucinotta]

I understand how many can be repulsed by French kissing. I don't think people should be doing that until BOTH partners are comfortable with doing it. People who force anything in a romance are not the kind of people I would want to be dating, let alone kissing.

 

[Christian T]

After going on an exchange program in France last year, what I would consider "French" is kissing is more like the awkward pretend kiss that Sparticus was talking about. In France, it is customary for a boy and a girl, two girls or two boys who are very, very close friends to kiss each other on the cheek as a greeting, even if they have never met before in my life (boys who aren't very close platonic friends simply shake hands - by the way, I can never do firm handshakes, they always turn out too soft because I'm so apprehensive). I actually was fine with all the kissing, though. It was at least a relief to not have the uncertainty of whether to do an air kiss or a real kiss, and it meant that I got to kiss every single girl I spoke too!

 

[Neat Hedgehog]

About a year ago it was different enough to be new and interesting, since I never had before. Now I'd really just rather not.

 

[dwc780]

I enjoy it quite a bit! I've never really had an issue with physical contact, unless it is someone I either do not like or do not know.

 

[total-recoil]

I'm cold basically. I can go along with it but it seems merely a sensory experience.

Since Aspies tend to dislike touching, I'm curious about the views of others where kissing is concerned. For me, I do not see the purpose and find it somewhat repulsive.

 

[Mint]

I'm cold basically. I can go along with it but it seems merely a sensory experience.

It is TOTALLY a sensory experience...lol You are right about that.

 

[Mint]

I have always been very affectionate...with those I know and love. I can only deal with handshakes if they're firm or I just about get sick.

I love a TIGHT hug. Not "crack my ribs" tight but firm and warm. : )

Kissing as in "not family" always leads somewhere or me leaving...lol I could do that ALL the time. *sighs*

 

[Slothie]

Tease her, nibble her upper or lower lip...then smell & kiss her neck. Gently bite her lower jaw...

In all seriousness kissing is great fun, but not in the morning or late at night because their breath goes stagnant.