I'm a plague to women who are not married.

[tree]

Yes, when you are in the down mode, you interpret
everything with negative eyes. This is not reality.

 

[Tony Ramirez]

Yes, when you are in the down mode, you interpret
everything with negative eyes. This is not reality.

I think your right all along. I bet in college some or more of those girls were not out to get me then either. I just was a mess and didn't know how to actually talk to them. I know a few did actually approach and talk to me new class asked me a question but I actually ran away and sat far away from them. If that was me now I would have sat next or near to one that talked to me you know they. Believe it or not. I am much better at socializing now. I do that now BTW when that happens.

 

[DrBadStrings]

I think I created this post with my catastrophic thinking again. At the morning church yes PSCC I am so welcomed it's the one I felt ostracized. I even meet the couples two female friends. One is married with kids but the other is not. We hung out a bit today since they came to our after church life group. The other one even remembered me from starting point where I thought she ostracized me. They even talked to me especially the non married one. I was so nervous I was googling mild autism talking to women with not much help.

They came to our life group were I meet other people. They all pretty much greet me even when I enter the building now. It's like everywhere else.

If women were repulse by me then why would they say if you want to come with us to hang out.

That you are starting to realize it was catastrophic thinking is a good sign. Just because social interactions don't always go our way doesn't mean the world is against us. It's just usually more difficult for us. Try to remind yourself of this the next time your thoughts go there. Or at least take heed if someone on this forum should remind you of that fact.

 

[Steelbookcollector217]

i think the title should be rephrased, "plague to women who are just single in general", but yeah, i know Tony said this already, he should feel very lucky that his parents had him when they were very young, i think his parents were either 19 or 20 when he was born, most people who are near their 50s, have lost both of their parents already or parents don't have much time left. I think Tony said, if his parents were dead, he would likely be a homeless person.