Naturalist
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Recently I was having a discussion with someone who knows me quite well, and whose opinion I value. I was expressing concern over my seven-year-old son's obsession with the military, particularly weapons. He said that was pretty typical of boys that age (even though my son says only two other boys in his grade are interested) and that he would be more concerned if my son could recite all the presidents and the dates of their terms of office. "That's the kid who is more likely to try to blow up the school," he said.
I was so stunned I didn't know what to say, except that I couldn't see how having a good rote memory and an interest in history was a recipe for becoming a mass murderer. Moreover, even as a joke it seemed really tasteless, because this person would have known that I had a great memory in grade school and frequently recited famous speeches to my history classes, and I didn't grow up to be violent.
Can anyone make sense of this comment? What response would you have given?
I was so stunned I didn't know what to say, except that I couldn't see how having a good rote memory and an interest in history was a recipe for becoming a mass murderer. Moreover, even as a joke it seemed really tasteless, because this person would have known that I had a great memory in grade school and frequently recited famous speeches to my history classes, and I didn't grow up to be violent.
Can anyone make sense of this comment? What response would you have given?