The Chaos Sphinx
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This is my question; has anyone else felt like there's been a deleterious shift in the society's general attitude toward people like us over the past decade or so? Here's a bit of my story - forgive me if it's a little inchoate or disjointed, I'm terribly depressed:
It seems like it used to be (as in, up until 2004 or so) that if people mistreated me because I was different, it would be called bullying and I'd get support; somewhere along the way, however, it was like the bullies got cleverer, and started saying *I* was the one being bad, and autism "was no excuse" (this was something I heard from someone who claimed she herself had Asperger's Syndrome - the context was my college gaming club, where I thought surely I'd be welcomed, but I wasn't). I hadn't changed, but the way I was treated was.
I've seen this elsewhere since then; like a Cracked.com article from a few years ago "joking" about "Internet Asperger's Syndrome" as a way of describing online bullying. I posted a protest comment, saying we're not bullies, we GET bullied. A response I got to that, however was "Your Indigo Child Complex is showing, bully. We Aspies can be high-class bullies something something something about feminist theory Aspies are gatekeepers to the patriarchy and can get away with crimes more easily the honeymoon is over!"
What was the deal with these people? Has anyone else encountered "brainwashed" Aspies like that? Is brainwashing what it is? Could there be regional/cultural variation on how we're treated (I grew up in halcyon-era Silicon Valley, but my family moved to rural New Mexico in 2002, where we're still stuck)? I've seen other examples, too - there seems to have been a move away from acceptance and toward prejudice and intolerance (or "You're not a bad person, you just need to learn how to be like everyone else") - a devious sort of prejudice and intolerance, too, where we're suddenly cast in the opposite role even though we haven't changed. It used to be you could be proud of being autistic - now? It seems like there's some very pervasive backlash.
Does anyone else understand what I'm talking about? Part of why this is so incoherent is because I myself and disoriented and confused about what's happened. It and other things have destroyed my life. I feel like I spent 18 years building myself into someone I liked, but then it was all taken away from me (I should note that I have other problems too, including severe OCD/depression/some things we're still trying to identify - I had a psychotic break in 2004 the morning after Election Day, and my life has gone from semi-charmed to living-my-own-worst-nightmare).
It seems like it used to be (as in, up until 2004 or so) that if people mistreated me because I was different, it would be called bullying and I'd get support; somewhere along the way, however, it was like the bullies got cleverer, and started saying *I* was the one being bad, and autism "was no excuse" (this was something I heard from someone who claimed she herself had Asperger's Syndrome - the context was my college gaming club, where I thought surely I'd be welcomed, but I wasn't). I hadn't changed, but the way I was treated was.
I've seen this elsewhere since then; like a Cracked.com article from a few years ago "joking" about "Internet Asperger's Syndrome" as a way of describing online bullying. I posted a protest comment, saying we're not bullies, we GET bullied. A response I got to that, however was "Your Indigo Child Complex is showing, bully. We Aspies can be high-class bullies something something something about feminist theory Aspies are gatekeepers to the patriarchy and can get away with crimes more easily the honeymoon is over!"
What was the deal with these people? Has anyone else encountered "brainwashed" Aspies like that? Is brainwashing what it is? Could there be regional/cultural variation on how we're treated (I grew up in halcyon-era Silicon Valley, but my family moved to rural New Mexico in 2002, where we're still stuck)? I've seen other examples, too - there seems to have been a move away from acceptance and toward prejudice and intolerance (or "You're not a bad person, you just need to learn how to be like everyone else") - a devious sort of prejudice and intolerance, too, where we're suddenly cast in the opposite role even though we haven't changed. It used to be you could be proud of being autistic - now? It seems like there's some very pervasive backlash.
Does anyone else understand what I'm talking about? Part of why this is so incoherent is because I myself and disoriented and confused about what's happened. It and other things have destroyed my life. I feel like I spent 18 years building myself into someone I liked, but then it was all taken away from me (I should note that I have other problems too, including severe OCD/depression/some things we're still trying to identify - I had a psychotic break in 2004 the morning after Election Day, and my life has gone from semi-charmed to living-my-own-worst-nightmare).