People come into any forum with expectations. What are/were yours for this forum? How about other autism forums?
To be perfectly honest, I didn't come here expecting so many people reporting that they are in a relationship. I also understand that it can be irrational to think this way and maybe very much a product of my own frustrations, but the way members have portrayed it, it has felt to me like relationships have basically fallen on their laps in comparison to the sheer amount of failed effort that I've put into trying connect with people.
Also, I've noticed lots of self diagnosed people on different autism forums and admittedly feel skeptical at times but that doesn't make any one member less of a valid member to me, it just means that I'm not always so certain they understand what it's like to have the kind of symptoms that I do. In no way am I putting anyone on blast with this thread, and I'd like to stimulate some healthy dialogue about these kinds of things so we can understand each other better and share interesting things about what we expect from an autism forum.
To be perfectly honest, I didn't come here expecting so many people reporting that they are in a relationship. I also understand that it can be irrational to think this way and maybe very much a product of my own frustrations, but the way members have portrayed it, it has felt to me like relationships have basically fallen on their laps in comparison to the sheer amount of failed effort that I've put into trying connect with people.
Also, I've noticed lots of self diagnosed people on different autism forums and admittedly feel skeptical at times but that doesn't make any one member less of a valid member to me, it just means that I'm not always so certain they understand what it's like to have the kind of symptoms that I do. In no way am I putting anyone on blast with this thread, and I'd like to stimulate some healthy dialogue about these kinds of things so we can understand each other better and share interesting things about what we expect from an autism forum.
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