So here I am again.. after 3 months I finally found out. And this hurts even more than before.
EX is dating her best friends abusive EX. What do I do?
If you read my other posts you’ll know the backstory of our relationship.. now then..
She would tell me about this famous musician guy a few times and how he would force himself and have sex with her best friend against her will when they were together. I did not make much of it except agree on that he seemed like an asshole, and my EX is a huge feminist and constantly posts about abuse in relationships on social media while having a degree in gender studies. I would notice however how my EX would like all of this guys pictures on instagram and she even got him a small tattoo once. He came over to her and she tattooed him (worried something between them began here). Well.. she broke up with me after a while because in her view we were too different and that she had lost feelings.
Fast forward 3 months and I find out she is dating this guy. He had been hovering around our whole relationship. I can’t help but feel extremely disapointed in my ex both for choosing a guy she KNOWS is an abuser. But for doing this to her friend as well. The fact that she claims to be a feminist and posts stuff like ”Always trust the victim, not the abuser” makes my stomach turn inside out. The fact that she is falling for his facade of being a famous romantic guy now that he has a few million hits on spotify.
I don’t want her to get abused. I’m worried he will take advantage of her and she won’t realize because of her diagnose. I want her to be happy and this guy will most likely break her heart since he has tons of girls around him all the time.
What do I do?..
EX is dating her best friends abusive EX. What do I do?
If you read my other posts you’ll know the backstory of our relationship.. now then..
She would tell me about this famous musician guy a few times and how he would force himself and have sex with her best friend against her will when they were together. I did not make much of it except agree on that he seemed like an asshole, and my EX is a huge feminist and constantly posts about abuse in relationships on social media while having a degree in gender studies. I would notice however how my EX would like all of this guys pictures on instagram and she even got him a small tattoo once. He came over to her and she tattooed him (worried something between them began here). Well.. she broke up with me after a while because in her view we were too different and that she had lost feelings.
Fast forward 3 months and I find out she is dating this guy. He had been hovering around our whole relationship. I can’t help but feel extremely disapointed in my ex both for choosing a guy she KNOWS is an abuser. But for doing this to her friend as well. The fact that she claims to be a feminist and posts stuff like ”Always trust the victim, not the abuser” makes my stomach turn inside out. The fact that she is falling for his facade of being a famous romantic guy now that he has a few million hits on spotify.
I don’t want her to get abused. I’m worried he will take advantage of her and she won’t realize because of her diagnose. I want her to be happy and this guy will most likely break her heart since he has tons of girls around him all the time.
What do I do?..