drama4money
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Umm yeah so Ive been dating her for about 8 months now and at the beginning everything was cool. I liked her personality because she was different than other girls, smarter, funny in a childlike way, shes also really pretty. Anyway, over time, I grew to love her. Some things bothered me though. She would call me a lot, so much so that we would run out of things to talk about sometimes. She also didnt understand when I was trying to be funny. She would interpret some of the things I said as offensive or she wouldnt react to them at all. I was like, "wahhhh?" 'cause normally people laugh at the dumb stuff I say. I found myself explaining myself to her a lot for this reason. Still, most of tbr time she wouldnt understand and it frustrated me. Anyway, I did research on Aspergers syndrome and it helped me a bit, but damn... its still so frustrating. Let me tell you why. This girl acts like a little girl when she doesnt get what she wants. Petty stuff throws her into fits and Im like, "here we go again...". I find myself constantly apologizing when I dont even do anything. I tell her, "look girl, I love you, but you need to stop being a dramaqueen because it stresses me out." We make up and then the next day the same thing happens. She tells me she wants to stop being that way and Im like, "cool, dont worry, its okay, I can help you, I can teach you how to control your emotions so it doesnt cause us problems and I can help you better understand my point of view too. Just be patient and trust me." She says yes and we forgive each other. Anyway, should I leave her? Because its really depressing me and draining me emotionally. She constantly criticizes me for dumb stuff to the point where my head hurts. Dont get me wrong though, I love the girl, but I just wanna have a more peaceful and loving relationship. I dont want to feel like Im walking on eggshells with her 24/7. Any advice? Thanks! Oh yeah shes only 19 and I just turned 29 so Im sure thats part of the problem too. What do you guys think? Will she grow out of it?