I post on a neurotypical forum too and they say regardless women in their 20's will not date a guy in his 30's who is a student too. They say the age is just too big of a factor. I think they maybe right. Even though I'm still technically a millenial.
I thought this wouldn’t be a very important factor because people in their 30s often look youthful. You could ask out those who are in the same age as you are.