hannahhannah
New Member
Hey everybody
I hope you are all well. I have a somewhat weird question (I think. maybe it's not weird). I have always had this problem that I just cannot tell if people like me. Like when I meet someone new (in both, new friendship or dating). I just cannot tell if they like me. I have no idea. But I can't really just ask them
In addition to this, whenever I say or do something that I think might be off putting I ponder over this forever and I'm afraid that even if that person did like me before, she/he for sure won't anymore now. But again, I can't ask if that's the case so basically I just wait and see if they contact me again.
Like for example today, me and a fairly new friend of mine (we met in April) went for a walk with our dogs. I really like her, she's great and it's a pretty comfortable friendship for me (no need for pointless smalltalk, we meet once a week for a walk, usually at the same day and time, etc).
However, I did something stupid (was a little too harsh with my dog when she was being an asshole to one of her dogs). I feel horrible and I think she will think I'm a horrible person. We did agree to meet on sunday though, but still, I just don't know if she likes me or is just being nice. I'm not sure if that has to do with my difficulty to perceive other people's emotions, body language etc. or if I'm just under the impression to not be very lovable since most people seem to stop liking me eventually.
So, the question is, is that just me or do you guys have this experience too?
I hope you are all well. I have a somewhat weird question (I think. maybe it's not weird). I have always had this problem that I just cannot tell if people like me. Like when I meet someone new (in both, new friendship or dating). I just cannot tell if they like me. I have no idea. But I can't really just ask them
In addition to this, whenever I say or do something that I think might be off putting I ponder over this forever and I'm afraid that even if that person did like me before, she/he for sure won't anymore now. But again, I can't ask if that's the case so basically I just wait and see if they contact me again.
Like for example today, me and a fairly new friend of mine (we met in April) went for a walk with our dogs. I really like her, she's great and it's a pretty comfortable friendship for me (no need for pointless smalltalk, we meet once a week for a walk, usually at the same day and time, etc).
However, I did something stupid (was a little too harsh with my dog when she was being an asshole to one of her dogs). I feel horrible and I think she will think I'm a horrible person. We did agree to meet on sunday though, but still, I just don't know if she likes me or is just being nice. I'm not sure if that has to do with my difficulty to perceive other people's emotions, body language etc. or if I'm just under the impression to not be very lovable since most people seem to stop liking me eventually.
So, the question is, is that just me or do you guys have this experience too?