OlLiE
Well-Known Member
maybe stop worrying what people may think because you are who you are
1. you wanted to a considerate kindness
2. you have gone to all the work but don't want to bring it for fear of unwanted social interaction
conclusion: deliver it, say hi, and say you have to go and leave
it needn't be more complicated
the complication starts when you start guesstimating what they may expect of you
i like to visit my grandmother, she knows i can't handle staying for long, and she still manages to appreciate my visit
1. you wanted to a considerate kindness
2. you have gone to all the work but don't want to bring it for fear of unwanted social interaction
conclusion: deliver it, say hi, and say you have to go and leave
it needn't be more complicated
the complication starts when you start guesstimating what they may expect of you
i like to visit my grandmother, she knows i can't handle staying for long, and she still manages to appreciate my visit