I don't think I write half as elegantly as
@Misery but here's my attempt at an omnibus response:
i dont know how ratios translat to compare. but 2,000 plus more men is alot. and they can also date men from elsewhere in state. I often see women in person complaining about lack of men which they mean men with good jobs.
There's nothing stopping you from dating those elsewhere in the state, or for that matter outside your state or outside your country.
The jurisdiction I was referring to, by the way, was AB.
If say we were to look at
stats for OR, we see that there's an overall M:F ratio of 98.2:100.
Of course individual regions/counties would have different ratios, but the numbers are favorable overall.
gold digging is trying to date bill gates. women as most people want to have a middle class lifestyile so they only want to date men who will help towards that. anyone who dates me will have to accept they'll never have that lifsytle. life with me will mean always being poor. I can't afford a car, I can't afford trips to europe. I can't afford to eat out every day. doesn't help most women in my area work as nurses and thus are well paid.
Gold digging doesn't necessarily mean going for a billionaire or even a millionaire. It can refer to any scenario where someone is pursuing a relationship primary for purposes of a meal ticket and/or to be lavished with things.
Also, as I've mentioned several times now, I've seen more examples of women marrying down from a socioeconomic standpoint, than marrying up. The model that the guy must make more in a hetrosexual relationship is outmoded.
women at work know how much I make and refuse to talk to me to point of point blank ignoring me if I try to talk to them.
Stop trying to date your co-workers. You're probably coming off as desperate and scaring them all away. If you're in a smaller community, there's a good chance you already ruined your reputation.
they never get to see that i'm funny, caring , loyal and compassionate cause they can find guys with their life together that have all those or change to have all those. as I was told over and over on another autism site I have nothing to offer that any other guy couldn't also offer on top of his job and money.
Again, money isn't everything. It's only a part of the equation. Stop putting it on a pedestal.
I can't lie. so what do I say if they want to meet somewhere bus doesnt go? get me to pickthem up?
There's no shame in asking to be picked up / dropped off. Isn't that the first date in the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin?
go to place I can't afford.
Suggest another place or activity.
what do I say when they keep asking where i work and what I do?
Say it as it is. If they're judging you for that, they're not the right person.
are you in europe? if not you're a very rare woman.
I'm not full of rage, just accepted reality. i've asked thousands of women. probably almost all the single women in my age range at this point.
The number of single women in your age range probably number over a billion.
I can't date women outside my city.
There's a big world out there. Don't be scared of others just because they're not from your hometown. Diversity enriches the world. Don't be xenophobic.
Id bet most the min wage workering men are alone.
Recent empirical research suggests that couples consider economic stability and future outlook to be prerequisites for marriage... Combined couple earnings are most important for those with a high school degree or less. At $26,000, marriage odds increase significantly and continue to increase for couples with less than a high school degree. source
$26,000 combined annual income will include almost any combination.
