Ive had my share. I have to wonder though, because Im pretty the guys like to have their way and not much more.
You know what? Being pretty aint all its cracked up to be, Its much better to have friends, guys dont tend to see beyond my face and bra size :-(
The only thing I can recommend is to find friends, real friends who love you, and maybe one of those will become an intimate relationship based on something true. Sometimes these things happen in the most unexpected times and places. Follow your interests, is there anything you like to do? Maybe find others who enjoy the same things, maybe there will be someone there who you can build a relationship with on common grounds. Voluntary work is an excellent suggestion.
Love to you Mary