Hanna fowler
Active Member
Hello everyone. I am a 33 y/o Female NT recently in a 4 month relationship with a 33 y/o Male AS. It started out very full on, after 3 weeks he told me he was madly in love with me and shortly after said he was gonna marry me one day and that I was his everything. We were even planning on moving in together after around 9 months of being together. We talked weddings and future children and him being the stepdad to my daughter.
Everything was great until I started bringing to his attention that the lack of affection (which was really none at all) was bothering me. He said he would try harder but it never happened so I brought it up again. That time he noticeably was getting annoyed and tried to turn it around on me saying I was too needy, he was not nice about it.
Shortly after that he got very frustrated with me when I accused him of only wanting to see me when he needed his laundry done and needed a ride to the store. Things went very quickly down hill from there and long story short he abruptly stopped talking to me all together, wouldn't respond to my texts even when i was pouring my heart out saying how devastated I was that he completely just abandoned me. Still no response and it has really broken me.
Is this common for someone with AS to do? I am so confused in thinking did he even really ever love me? Did I ever mean that much to him? Cause if I did how could he do this to me? I would love some advice and help on this!
Everything was great until I started bringing to his attention that the lack of affection (which was really none at all) was bothering me. He said he would try harder but it never happened so I brought it up again. That time he noticeably was getting annoyed and tried to turn it around on me saying I was too needy, he was not nice about it.
Shortly after that he got very frustrated with me when I accused him of only wanting to see me when he needed his laundry done and needed a ride to the store. Things went very quickly down hill from there and long story short he abruptly stopped talking to me all together, wouldn't respond to my texts even when i was pouring my heart out saying how devastated I was that he completely just abandoned me. Still no response and it has really broken me.
Is this common for someone with AS to do? I am so confused in thinking did he even really ever love me? Did I ever mean that much to him? Cause if I did how could he do this to me? I would love some advice and help on this!
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