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Markness

Markness

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  • Markness
    I feel defeated when I am told something harsh and I can’t come up with an immediate response.
    tree
    tree
    conversational jousting....experiencing remarks like swords/doing battle
    Markness
    Can I become creative again after losing it at the beginning of the year?
    tree
    tree
    How about posing the idea in the form of a statement, rather than as an unanswerable question. (Say what it is you want.)
    Markness
    Markness
    I want to know if I can draw and story write again.
    tree
    tree
    Try refining that statement. It's not that you just want to know if you can. It looks to me as if what you really want is .....to draw and write stories.
    Markness
    Having a pet does not help me feel less depressed.
    Homulilly
    Homulilly
    So what does it make you feel? Can you describe that? Tho honestly speaking pets are not for everyone.
    tree
    tree
    The cats are yours? I thought they belonged to your mother.
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    I didn't know you had pets! Nice!
    Markness
    I gave FoxDog a negative review and one of the owners responded with an apology.
    Stuttermabolur
    Stuttermabolur
    What's FoxDog?
    tree
    tree
    It's a local beer joint that prides itself on being family oriented and inclusive.
    Markness
    I can’t let go of feeling lonely.
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    Alaric593
    Alaric593
    It took me a while to train my mind to focus on what's empirically in front of me to allow me to understand that despite feeling alone, I'm not actually alone. It doesn't stop the feeling of being alone, but it stops the depression that comes along with that feeling if we allow it.
    Markness
    Markness
    I’ve been told by various people here I shouldn’t ever have children.
    Alaric593
    Alaric593
    Who are they to you? Are they reasonably able to make that determination? If so, what makes them reasonably able to make that determination?
    Markness
    I don’t think there’s anything wrong with me wanting love in my life.
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    Markness
    Markness
    @Homulilly Do I have to give up wanting a girlfriend to ever come into my life to do so?
    tree
    tree
    No. (You're not asking me, but I'll tell you the simple answer to that anyway.)
    Homulilly
    Homulilly
    No, but it looks like you’ve expressed difficulties getting a girlfriend. If you want a girlfriend to fulfill your need for love, you could try to fulfill that starting with yourself.
    Markness
    How do I move forward in this life?
    tree
    tree
    You're feeling stuck.
    Markness
    Markness
    And I wish I could get unstuck if that’s possible.
    tree
    tree
    Yes, thoughtful effort can produce changes.
    Markness
    I don’t like it when people downplay my struggles just because I am a man and claim I can just open the door and leave home without trouble.
    Markness
    I can’t even play blues on the guitar despite feeling the way I do.
    tree
    tree
    You're expecting to be able to play blues based on the fact that you experience the blues/unhappiness?
    Markness
    Would those who dislike me ever consider giving me a second chance?
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    Markness
    Markness
    Storm Hess
    Storm Hess
    Then those people don't matter. Why be subservient to those that despise you? You are setting yourself up to be a victim, are you not? Therefore, you are making a conscious choice to be abused on many levels. Try to learn from those mistakes and move on. You can be as strong or weak as you want. Your choice.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    @StormHess has a great point. Some people don't like us. It happens to NT's also. I don't like everybody. It doesn't mean that they aren't great people. Liking someone is subjective not objective. Just art work. I like that picture, it's my fav colors. I hate that pic, it reminds me of something.
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