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Recent content by rickxxxblaine

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    Everyday issues becoming overwhelming when involving people

    I think you suffer from obsession. That's not necessarily a bad thing. I mean you need to play things in your head again and again until you find some kind of 'solution'. There's no solution. People are stupid. I suggest you put your obsession to good use making new experiences, like painting or...
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    Can't handle "success" with women

    I consider myself more like a self-preserving person and that's why I moved in the first place. My girlfriend was kinda toxic and my new roommate was very kind. I moved to save some money for buying a home for myself and have for the first time I'm my life a place of my own. So please don't let...
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    Do aspies/auties tend to have good gut instinct or no gut instinct?

    No instinct at all as far as I'm concerned... The few I know I had to learn it by paying attention to any small detail and make lots of computations in my head. This led me to a lot of weird experiences, like going out with a ladyboy for the funny part or being seen as naive by shameless people...
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    Can't handle "success" with women

    Ok, i'm in panic mode since yesterday... I left my girlfriend some time ago (2 monthes maybe) to live with a roomate (an older woman) and since that time things have become impossible to manage with women. My ex-gf tells me she's crazy about me. I think she's crazy, too, but as a general rule...
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    Actor/Actress Obsession?

    Humphrey Bogart, of course. So much presence, toughest of the toughest, except maybe Clint Eastwood. When I was younger, I had the same problem some of you mentioned. Couldn't recognise any actor. Getting older things go better and I'm now able to say 'yeah it's thar guy who was playing playing...
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    People with autism having children

    Just make an 'awful' discovery. Had my parents in Paris for the week end. My father's an Aspie, no doubt about that. Once far from his 'natural' environment, he showed many of the symptoms, creating even awkward situations, like when he was more interested in the electrical vehicles that...
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    Unsolicited comments (of any sort)

    It's quite funny cause I try to do the exact opposite. Here in Paris people don't care about each other until something really unusual happens. And when I'm walking in the street, I'm the only one looking at other people. And I don't know, people seem to think I'm dumb or not from here, or an...
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    Unsolicited comments (of any sort)

    What's your number ? ;)
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    *Little* Things That Annoy You (Pet Peeves)

    What drives me crazy is when I talk to a Nt that's really convinced he's right about something. But he's not. And you can do anything, but you'll never make him change his mind, even for its own good. You'll just make him mad at you. Otherwise, doing something stupid, even the smallest mistake...
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    Financial Problems anyone?

    So you like check lists and routines ? Why not put something a little outside your comfort zone each day on your routine and list ? And do it of course... This will help you a lot I think
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    Financial Problems anyone?

    Been broke when I was younger and made all that was humanely possible not to do it again. Was like a kick in my ass and I never stopped working hard since. Before that I was a lazy man, too afraid of the world to get a job. Things can change drastically sometimes. Now I'm my own boss but I still...
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    Have you accomplished what you never thought you could?

    I try to do this all the time. Go ahead of myself and achieve as many challenges I can. First I became an engineer despite having studied musicology. Then i became single and learned to live by myself when my first wife left me. Learned to be happy alone and to be in charge of myself (and two...
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    People with autism having children

    I lost what I was willing to tell... Sorry :( This expérience got me scared of children. I don't know if I'll be able to listen to what they want to tell me, especially their relationships with others, or if I won't be hurt if they don't show interest in activities I want to do with them. This...
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    People with autism having children

    I have mixed feelings about that. I've been a step father for 3 years. The child was a Nt girl, 8 to 11 years old and it was like Hell on earth to me. As a Nt she had little to no interest on anything except reality shows and gossip. She told me about about that guy who supposedly told that...
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    Anyone interested in survival?

    Interested but not prepared for the end of the world. I hope this won't happen until I've got enough money to get ready.
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